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    Default I can't even talk to you now

    The other day when I used "bait-hook-reel-release", I said "I can't even talk to you now." And the girl asked me, "Why?" How could I answer her "why"?

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    Default Re: I can't even talk to you now

    this is why you cannot always use someone elses routines. they only work if you can be congruent. always anticipate that everything you say can and will be scrutinized.

    if she said why to that, you had to have a reason you said it. just speak from the heart when girls ask stuff like that.

    if you didn't have a justifiable reason to say it besides the fact that someone told you to on some forum, then why would you say it?

    she recognized that it was incongruent behavior, witch is why she asked the question "why?" (witch is one of the most common congruence tests)

    woman can see right through this stuff, sniffing out a fake is their great talent.

    however, if she throws out several congruence tests in a row, you can bust her for it with a line like
    " what is this, an interrogation?"

    just remember, always make sure that what you say is consistant with what you think, 90 percent of communication is non-verbal, if your verbal communication isn't congruent with your non-verbal communication, then it won't matter what you say, she'll feel uneasy about you.

    the solution is simple, lose the filter, say what you think. you can't be afraid to express your inner self.

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    Default Re: I can't even talk to you now

    May I say that likewise men can sense when you're being fake as well. It's a two-way street, and there's fake people on both sides of the aisle. Nobody likes a faker. That's why those who are genuine and sincere will always win out.

    That is also why you need to work on discovering yourself and your own creativity. Look around, check out a lot of stuff and read up on a lot of pua material. When you find the blend that works best for you, stick with it.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: I can't even talk to you now

    I agree 110%

    I can easily tell when guys are being fake or putting up an act and so can the girls I'm around. Mostly by giving the guy shit tests. If he's legit, that's awesome.
    For example 95% of the guys I meet that try to be cocky funny, or act like big shots, aren't shit, nor are they funny. They're just dweebs that try to act like cocky funny guys because they think people will respect them more/girls will like them.
    It makes me laugh, & my girl friends laugh too.


    Being congruent to yourself is the number one thing in all of PUA in my opinion.
    You need to figure out who you are and become the best of that.
    If you don't party, don't act like you like parties.
    If you're not cocky & confident, don't try to put up an act and be that way because people can see through it.
    If you're not a nice sweet guy, don't kiss girls ass's and try to be.
    If you're a genuinely good guy, who was raised in a good family, you shouldn't be chasing sluts who are into hard drugs, & party a lot.
    That's not you, & people can easily tell when you're not being congruent to who you actually are.

    If you are cocky, awesome, own it. BUT be able to own it because that's who you are due to past experiences etc. You're cocky because you can be, & you know you're the shit, it's a Mindset. You don't "try" to be it you just are.
    If you're funny, awesome, make people happy and laugh, just don't become a dancing monkey.
    If you're a nice sweet guy, awesome. Be sweet and nice to girls, you might get rejected a few times, but eventually you'll also find a nice sweet girl, who likes you for you. That's what's important anyways.

    Just be yourself, but become the best version of you & find a girl who compliments that & excites you.

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    Default Re: I can't even talk to you now

    You dont wanna blurt out lines when there is no context. You have to say them for a reason. "I cant even talk to you now" is something you use when she says she likes some tv show that you hate or is a fan of some team that you hate, etc.


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