I understand what you're saying. I could have also named this thread "read between the lines" because what a woman says she wants isn't always what she really wants.
I did get plenty of drama anyways, yet it would have been way worse if I would have slept with her. I can see it now...she would have texted me 20 times a day, and would want to hang out all the time. I would have gotten creeped out super fast, ended it, and everyone in my office would know about it.
I really couldn't believe the amount of drama involved to be honest. We only made out! That was a red flag the size of a football field!