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    Default How to hold a woman's gaze?

    What's the difference between stare and gaze?

    When an unknown woman looks at me, I want her to look at my eyes for several seconds. How can I hold her gaze?

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    Default Re: How to hold a woman's gaze?

    A woman you've never met will probably not gaze into your eyes when you look at her.

    If she's attracted to you, she will quickly look away... sort of like she's shy & embarrassed.

    After you get to know a girl better, THEN she'll hold the gaze & look into your eyes longer.



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    Default Re: How to hold a woman's gaze?

    What's the difference between stare and gaze?
    ah, good question, the difference is simple.

    a stare is when you're checking her out from across the room, (or when she's giving you death looks after you p!ss her off)

    a gaze would be when she's looking me in the eyes right before I kiss her. or that look she gives me when I first insert myself inside of her.

    the real biggest difference between a stare and a gaze is the distance between you, if she's within conversation distance (less than 7 feet away) and she's looking you in the eyes, she's gazing at you.
    if she's across the room giving you dirty looks, that would be staring.

    gazing is usually good, staring is usually bad.

    note, don't be afraid to gaze back if she's looking you in the eyes, hold eye contact and create a little "moment" between the two of you
    (the trick is to look her in the eyes, and not the bust line lol)

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    Default Re: How to hold a woman's gaze?

    Just look her dead in the eyes and don't back down.
    I don't really know what else to say, once you do it a few times with girls, it's just common sense.

    So, my tip is, walk up to 3 random girls, they can be ugly, and just ask them for the time because your phones dead.
    Look them dead in the eye when saying it and don't blink or look away the entire time.
    Then when they give you the time, just say thanks and walk away.

    By the 3rd girl this shouldn't be a problem anymore.


    Or you could just buy something from a cashier and practice looking them in the eyes. That's simple.

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    Default Re: How to hold a woman's gaze?

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    A woman you've never met will probably not gaze into your eyes when you look at her.

    If she's attracted to you, she will quickly look away... sort of like she's shy & embarrassed.

    After you get to know a girl better, THEN she'll hold the gaze & look into your eyes longer.

    This is mostly true, but if she is REALLY attracted to you she will hold eye contact for a LONG time. I've had some women that I've never met hold eye contact with me for 5-10 seconds. Some won't release eye contact at all. You can see her from across the room, hold eye contact, and she will keep it the whole time you are walking towards her. If you experience this you are truly GOLDEN and she is already yours, as long as you're confident when you talk to her.

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    Default Re: How to hold a woman's gaze?

    This is how i differentiate a gaze from a stare:
    A stare is when you look in an analyzing way, like you're looking at her and thinking of how hot she is. A stare has desire and judgement.

    A gaze is when you look at her like you're saluting her, you are acknowledging her presence. There is no judgement behind it but just a presence. This is why girls will smile at a gaze, but they will get creeped out by a stare. Yes, you can tell when someone who is looking at you is judging you or just acknowledging your presence.

    Nobody likes being judged even if its a good judgement, this is why people dread public speaking, everyone is staring at them. But mostly everyone loves meeting people one on one.

    Best way to gaze at a girl? Look at her as if saying hello and smile.

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    Default Re: How to hold a woman's gaze?

    Quote Originally Posted by DirectIsBest View Post
    This is mostly true, but if she is REALLY attracted to you she will hold eye contact for a LONG time. I've had some women that I've never met hold eye contact with me for 5-10 seconds. Some won't release eye contact at all. You can see her from across the room, hold eye contact, and she will keep it the whole time you are walking towards her. If you experience this you are truly GOLDEN and she is already yours, as long as you're confident when you talk to her.

    It's SOOOO good to see guys who know there's always an exception to every "rule".

    The "laser-lock eye contact girl" is a rare gem. She's super-confident & outwardly flirty, often with a wickedly funny / sarcastic sense of humor; making it MUCH easier to to know she's already interested.

    (Even better when she's attractive!)


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    Default Re: How to hold a woman's gaze?

    my friends wife can't hold long eye contact too long is that a sign of disinterest..haha

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    Default Re: How to hold a woman's gaze?

    Why are you worried about your friends wife? that sounds like you're trying to get with her which is shitty. wtf. ^
    btw yes, it is a IOD.

    I wish I could emphasize how important it is to hold strong eye contact with girls, but I can't.

    Yesterday, for example, while at work, I held eye contact with this super cute blonde girl that walked by my stand for almost 10-15 seconds before she walked past and started giggling. (I worked at a hotdog stand inside a casino btw.) That would of been an instant close if I would of just been able to talk to her.

    Eye contact + playful Kino + Confidence/balls is all you need.

    Get these 3 down and everything else will just fall into place naturally.

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    Default Re: How to hold a woman's gaze?

    dont ever touch a wife in the future..you heard me!.thanks for the advice.if it were you am sure you will think about it.


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