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Thread: How does one game as a "dark and mysterious" guy?

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    Default Re: How does one game as a "dark and mysterious" guy?

    I'm this type of guy for sure. I NEVER get called hot or social. When I'm out at the bar I'm either on the pool table or sitting somewhere where people come up and talk to me, say hi, give me hugs and whatever. I really don't care that much, but I do care a little about being part of the in crowd in a particular social group, I consider myself more like a gem that few people find and once they do they absolutely love me.

    Bottom line, I work hard, I study hard and I fuck hard. I don't go on and on talking about myself, but I have accepted who I am. You can take me in your life or leave me. I don't have much free time, and I make sure to mention it up front when taking a girls number during our very first interaction...time is my most precious resource, don't waste mine. I get maybe 3 nights a MONTH I am able to go out and do something, be it with friends OR with girls. I work 40+ hours/week making decent money and I take 18 credit hours, keeping a close-to 4.0 GPA. I refuse to waste that time on if's and maybes.

    That last paragraph is a bit dramatic, but I wanted to give you a sense how strongly I have come to value myself because of the accomplishments I have made and how far I have progressed all-around as an individual.

    You are serious, so you should game that way. When I introduce myself to a woman I find attractive, I look her right in the eyes, stare into her soul and tell her my name. My voice naturally deepens, I can get a girl to blush just by telling her my name, and I'm not that great looking of a guy. I know from that moment if she is interested or not.

    I use texting for the fun and flirty, and I interject some humor in of course with some slight teasing (you can do this while having that serious vibe). I make sure that masculine sexuality oozes out of me.

    But alas, I don't even bother closing anymore. I don't have the time to date, and I'm on a mission to chase my dreams right now...that is all that matters to me.

    What I'm really saying here is that to really pull this vibe off, you have to be true to yourself. You have to accept yourself and you have to value yourself, it takes some real inner game man, so if you want to pull this vibe off you need to make sure you are focusing on the OTHER areas of your life.

    What matters to me? Getting to where I want to go professionally, practice on my guitar daily, expanding my knowledge, popping on these forums to offer my insight and hopefully help someone in need and last, finding a mate. You need the ice cream dish to be filled in order to get the cherry on top.

    God that was a long semi-rambling post.
    KISS - Keep it Stupid Simple

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    Default Re: How does one game as a "dark and mysterious" guy?

    Whatiswrongwithme is right. Use that mysteriousness to your advantage, women love surprises. If I talk with a group that later wants to dance with me I never tell them bsfore hand that im good at dancing. Its a nice suprise.
    I never tell my name unless im asked about it. Use it, create reason for intrrest and build up anticipation!

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    Default Re: How does one game as a "dark and mysterious" guy?

    Its probably hard and not worth it to come off like that. Be the outgoing social guy and youll get plenty of numbers

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    Default Re: How does one game as a "dark and mysterious" guy?

    Quote Originally Posted by TheGeneral View Post
    You can't truly fake being a mystery. You actually have to be a psychologically complex person, somewhat of an introvert, and a be little bit crazy.

    If you have those traits it's like holding a hand of 52 cards. You can show a girl 3 or 4 and she is going to be going crazy. If you only have 5 cards and you show 3 or 4 there isn't much left.
    I agree with this. You have to have depth and experience to a degree to have mystery. Depth could be slowly revealing fascinating topics to talk about or slowly revealing your talents. I usually give away a few hints at what Im good at to girls initially to build attraction, then later suprise them with other (usually better) talents.

    Also get the girl talking a lot. She will naturally spill out all sorts of things about herself and probably like you for listening but at the end she won't actually know much about you and will naturally be curious.

    I wear a little bit of surfer/hippy jewelry and I bring them up in conversation, whether asked or not, as a way to create stories. 'This necklace? It's my love talisman'.

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    Default Re: How does one game as a "dark and mysterious" guy?

    The goal should to be to give to get the women more interested to hear, something that holds their attention, and gets them wanting more.


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