Re: Advice on eye contact techniques?
Don't worry too much about eye contact or you'll lose your head aka get stuck in your head. Here's what I do. Normal, normal, normal. For instance in the store the other night I first met one of my current targets. Somehow I was thinking about eye contact that day though not meditating on it.
I walk in and a 10 walks up and looks me square in the eye. Because she was a hottie I didn't break it I just kept looking at her and moving towards her. She opens me and I respond. Normally I sulk off in normal mode but not in beast mode I keep it steady. I keep my gaze locked onto them (aka locking onto a target) but you can't see their eyes cuz so far away so you just check them out and stare at their face.
After we got to the register then I make solid eye contact which I hold for a couple seconds to pierce into her eyes then break off. Once or twice of piercing is all you need for a small interaction. Just that one solid action of strong eye contact engaged her and now she always approaches me in the store cuz maybe she foresees me as being confident? Who knows but I will be developing this a lot more this year so check back on that.
When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.