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Thread: Advice on eye contact techniques?

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    Default Advice on eye contact techniques?

    Hey I've been reading a lot about the ways that eye contact can help in attracting a girl and I was curious what others had to say about it.

    I've heard that triangle gazing is one of the best known sexual triggers but I'm not sure if its better than hard, straight-on eye contact. Any assistance/opinions?

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    Default Re: Advice on eye contact techniques?

    The "triangle gaze" isn't really a sexual trigger...
    It's a subconscious sign in a woman's body language, that indicates she's thinking about kissing you, or probably wants to kiss you.

    If you pay attention to those cues, you can use that to judge when it's a good time to go for the kiss.




    But, thinking about it, there could be some benefits in doing it yourself... which might also get her thinking about the kiss. That WOULD make sense.

    I say go for it!
    It seems to be little subtle things that often have HUGE impacts on a girl.




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    Default Re: Advice on eye contact techniques?

    Don't worry too much about eye contact or you'll lose your head aka get stuck in your head. Here's what I do. Normal, normal, normal. For instance in the store the other night I first met one of my current targets. Somehow I was thinking about eye contact that day though not meditating on it.

    I walk in and a 10 walks up and looks me square in the eye. Because she was a hottie I didn't break it I just kept looking at her and moving towards her. She opens me and I respond. Normally I sulk off in normal mode but not in beast mode I keep it steady. I keep my gaze locked onto them (aka locking onto a target) but you can't see their eyes cuz so far away so you just check them out and stare at their face.

    After we got to the register then I make solid eye contact which I hold for a couple seconds to pierce into her eyes then break off. Once or twice of piercing is all you need for a small interaction. Just that one solid action of strong eye contact engaged her and now she always approaches me in the store cuz maybe she foresees me as being confident? Who knows but I will be developing this a lot more this year so check back on that.
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    Default Re: Advice on eye contact techniques?

    Eye contact is an extremely powerful tool. You heard the saying "Eyes are the windows to one's soul" Well it is true. Some of the best seducers know how to use body language (eye contact, voice, Kino) to great efficiency.

    Having strong eye contact reflects your inner game and congruence. I've done extensive testing on this in the past. When I am stuck in Isolation writing for too long, my confidence around ppl takes a hit and my eye contact goes with it. Weak eye contact can say a lot about you and hurt your game. Women, who are empathetic by nature, can pick up on this.

    In David Tian's Desire Method, projecting your desire for her through your eye contact can trigger a similar stimulus in her subconsciously. It's just like when people cough, it triggers other people's cough.

    I have used this to great efficiency on cashiers, waitresses, etc.

    Triangular gazing is also another effective form of seduction that subcommunicates to a woman your desire and intentions. A nice little anti-friendzone tool. It's good to use on a girl to subcommunicate to her that you are not "a friend."

    A good example of triangular gazing in action can be seen in Top Gun, when Tom Cruise (Maverick) runs into Kelly McGillis (Charlie) in the elevators. This was an actor's choice by Cruise, not a direction.

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    Default Re: Advice on eye contact techniques?

    In David Tian's Desire Method, projecting your desire for her through your eye contact can trigger a similar stimulus in her subconsciously. It's just like when people cough, it triggers other people's cough.
    I.M. Mortal I've also read a lot about David Tian and his idea behind Emotional Contagion and Sexual State Transference. Do you have a preference between hard eye contact or triangular gazing when using these Desire methods or do they have the same effect?

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    Default Re: Advice on eye contact techniques?

    No, they do not have the same effect. It is like comparing a rubber mallet to a sledgehammer.

    The solid eye contact used to channel sexual state transference hits them on a deeper level bypassing their mental roadblocks. This is something that takes time to master. I had a bit easier time with the learning curve on this due to my training as a method actor. Tian touches on things such as emotional recall that method actors use and the concept is similar to put yourself in the moment. When you do it right, you feel the backlash too.

    Triangular gazing is basically physical body language communication.
    Anyone can do it. Girls do it to guys (without knowing) and it is a form of ioi. If you want to recriprocate, you mirror it to her, and now you both are on the same wavelength without verbally expressing your feelings.

    Regarding my preference...I use both, fractionating back and forth. You can use triangular gazing to escalate and then go intense with the eye contact to project and hit her on a deeper level.

    That is what is referred to "eye fvcking" her...Shallow Deep Shallow Deep...hehehe.

    So if you want to learn how to "eye fvck" women, you should learn how to go deep too. You don't just fvck a girl with shallow penetrations right?

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    Default Re: Advice on eye contact techniques?

    I love this post immortal. I'm replying to your email as I type this btw too so one sec.

    Immortal is right on the money. I'd like to add, triangle gazing is something you need to really add to your arsenal of awesomeness. It's like cherry on top.

    I've tested triangle gazing before, and it's just playful and fun. I'd suggest you do it after the girl is already flirting with you though, it'll make her giggle. It works perfectly and is part of my OWN k-close routine, when you're ready to kiss her.

    Use the Triangle gazing in Isolation, and when she's ready to be kissed and it'll make for a magical kiss. Sparks will fly. Lol, seriously.


    Strong eye contact, Immortal nailed it. follow his advice.


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