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    Default In a slump

    Hi guys, I'm not actually new, but my old account got deleted somehow. So I'm pretty good at daygame, and getting numbers, but lately I've been in a slump. I normally had no problem getting numbers, but lately I've been having problems. I go up and usually open with "Hey, I saw you and thought you were cute and had to talk to you"... and I'll have a pretty normal convo with her. I'll then ask for her number after a few minutes. Normally never had too much of a problem. Now I just can't seem to get a break. I doubt all these girls have bfs even tho they say they do. Idk if it's me, is my conversation not good enough, does my body language suck (I don't think it does), am I not being sexual or physical enough? Cuz the only physical contact is a handshake and maybe a hug at the end. Anyone want to help me out? I want to get thru this slump

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    Default Re: In a slump

    instead of asking the typical "can I get your number" (witch imo sounds like your almost begging her to give it to you) just hand her your phone with the "add new contact" page pulled up. she'll know what to do. if she tries givng you the shat test "what do you expect me to do?" (or something along those lines) tell her "I want to see you again, put your number in my phone." (this is the alpha way to get numbers, you aren't asking her for her number, your telling her you want it.)

    odds are your just making it a big deal to get her number, The Vibe you're giving off is probably a little needy.
    the way to get around this is simple don't think anything of getting the number. if you don't make a big deal out of it, she won't make it a big deal giving it to you.

    if you start to feel nervous about getting a number, just think to yourself, "most girls give their numbers out like candy at a parade" (and you can even visualize girls on a float going down the street tossing out slips of paper with their numbers on them to all the desperate horny men on the sidewalks)

    don't objectify getting numbers, it really doesn't mean much if a girl gives you her number. focus more on building comfort and the numbers will come

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    Default Re: In a slump

    Hey man, here's a good portion of your trouble...
    You said:
    I go up and usually open with "Hey, I saw you and thought you were cute and had to talk to you"... and I'll have a pretty normal convo with her. I'll then ask for her number after a few minutes.

    You should be creating a more fun vibe.

    Forget having a "normal conversation".
    Be different... be bold... be confident & flirt more.

    You'll have better luck getting a number if you spark a little attraction.

    "Conversations" build rapport... rapport is not attraction. So rapport without attraction = FRIEND.

    Make sense?





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    Default Re: In a slump

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    instead of asking the typical "can I get your number" (witch imo sounds like your almost begging her to give it to you)
    The way I usually do it is "I'd like to get your number and get together with you sometime." Now that I think about that I don't say that as confidently as I could. I like your way better though!

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    Default Re: In a slump

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    "Conversations" build rapport... rapport is not attraction. So rapport without attraction = FRIEND.

    Make sense?





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    Makes COMPLETE sense. Don't know why I couldn't realize that before. Thanks


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