Re: Need help approaching gym employee
First off don't. Go to the Gym to work out not hit on chicks. I did do one warm approach in the Gym one time (it went south) and gave up on it due to the low number of quality women there. And by low I mean low! I almost approached an 8 but didn't and found out she is married (haha not through rejection but FB). Then I noticed a HB9 just star gazing at me and saw her again today scoping me out like a piece of meat. Just watching me like a hawk. One problem she has a BF and he is like a 275 lb Goliath and he was actually there with her today. I am 180 and he makes me look like a rag doll however constant looks of lust from her.
Then the Gym employee there is constantly staring at me (HB6) and I never talk to her for these same reasons cuz I know the staff all wants her and I would hate to lower my value talking to her if she rejects me. That's why I don't really approach in the Gym cuz of all this. This broad with her workout husband was giggling at me so at least she didn't fool me by getting me to approach since I picked her apart and let her be.
I go to the Gym to lift and I go out to sarge. Simply put it's not the best environment to meet eligible women to fark. Some super hot 9 came in one time for a tour and I imagine she didn't come back likely cuz I didn't open her as she was checking me hard and never came back. That totally annoyed me so yes it would be better to look elsewhere since it is nothing but games here. But at least all these chicks are scoping me hard. Like WTF do they want with me? So I just let them stare, give me anime eyes, and move on. So I just choose to ignore it now. Sounds dumb but the Gym is like the Jungle but Daygame & Night Game venues are like the Big Game. So step into the big game and get out of the Jungle (but still work out). Kinda funny I never talked to this 9 (I talk to nearly every hottie in-field) and for good reason as you can see.
So obviously I didn't start anything with either party out of respect. But man it was funny I was laughing to myself. I was thinking "Alright you want to bring your BF here and sit there with your friends and check me out? FINE. Put my hat backwards oh boy did that get her attention! She was staring dead at me like she was in heat, I had to revert my eyes to something else since she wouldn't stop looking so dang hard. You know how you can stare when they ain't looking but you can tell when they are staring. So at least I felt it served a little justice.
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