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    Default Need help approaching gym employee

    I met this girl at my gym and I talked to her for a little while. I let her know that I can be a little shy at first and that I don't know her that well yet.

    Note: (I am only anti-social like this with people I don't know but with close friends and family its easy for me to show I have a sense of humor, how intelligent I am, I can hold a conversation..etc.)

    I did look her body over and I am sure she noticed that!

    I told her I thought she was attractive but only made one comment about her looks. I want her to know that I am not just a customer.

    I also want to be able to convey as subtly as possible that her looks isn't good enough for me.

    She works behind the front counter but also works out sometimes.

    Does anyone have any ideas of anything playful/teasing I could use in this situation?

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    Default Re: Need help approaching gym employee

    First off don't. Go to the Gym to work out not hit on chicks. I did do one warm approach in the Gym one time (it went south) and gave up on it due to the low number of quality women there. And by low I mean low! I almost approached an 8 but didn't and found out she is married (haha not through rejection but FB). Then I noticed a HB9 just star gazing at me and saw her again today scoping me out like a piece of meat. Just watching me like a hawk. One problem she has a BF and he is like a 275 lb Goliath and he was actually there with her today. I am 180 and he makes me look like a rag doll however constant looks of lust from her.

    Then the Gym employee there is constantly staring at me (HB6) and I never talk to her for these same reasons cuz I know the staff all wants her and I would hate to lower my value talking to her if she rejects me. That's why I don't really approach in the Gym cuz of all this. This broad with her workout husband was giggling at me so at least she didn't fool me by getting me to approach since I picked her apart and let her be.

    I go to the Gym to lift and I go out to sarge. Simply put it's not the best environment to meet eligible women to fark. Some super hot 9 came in one time for a tour and I imagine she didn't come back likely cuz I didn't open her as she was checking me hard and never came back. That totally annoyed me so yes it would be better to look elsewhere since it is nothing but games here. But at least all these chicks are scoping me hard. Like WTF do they want with me? So I just let them stare, give me anime eyes, and move on. So I just choose to ignore it now. Sounds dumb but the Gym is like the Jungle but Daygame & Night Game venues are like the Big Game. So step into the big game and get out of the Jungle (but still work out). Kinda funny I never talked to this 9 (I talk to nearly every hottie in-field) and for good reason as you can see.

    So obviously I didn't start anything with either party out of respect. But man it was funny I was laughing to myself. I was thinking "Alright you want to bring your BF here and sit there with your friends and check me out? FINE. Put my hat backwards oh boy did that get her attention! She was staring dead at me like she was in heat, I had to revert my eyes to something else since she wouldn't stop looking so dang hard. You know how you can stare when they ain't looking but you can tell when they are staring. So at least I felt it served a little justice.
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    Default Re: Need help approaching gym employee

    Jack,

    Its cool that you mentioned you noticed a girl checking you out. That has happened to me a few times but probably happens more than I am aware of. I think women are quick about doing it so they don't get caught in the act. This woman at the gym I think isn't worth it. She is probably the type that thinks because she is hot that is all that matters. Sorry its a two way street. Guys get judged right away for not being their true selves like show sense of humor..etc but women need to also be fun to be around too. We aren't here to be entertainers for them and all they have to do is stand there and look cute.


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