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Thread: What's a good next move?

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    Default What's a good next move?

    So I met this cute girl at a bar the other night - dances, sings, really nice, a lot of fun, etc. etc. and got her number. Texted her Sunday, got a text back Monday. Didn't notice text until today. Sent one back, just a simple, "Hey, yeah, it's me. For some reason didn't get the text until now. What've you been up to?" No reply.

    Now, normally I'd be like, okay, whatever, I'll text/call her in a couple days, see if I can't meet some other girls in the meantime. But I move out of town on Friday. So I'm wondering what a good next move is- I'd like to get her out at least once and see where it goes before I take off, but I also know that being pushy and overtexting or calling too early will make exactly the opposite happen.

    How would you guys handle this?

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    Default Re: What's a good next move?

    You have to start by sending better texts.

    What you sent her is the same lame, boring kind of stuff that every other guy would send her. (AND it sounds like you were blowing her off... at least that's what she's hearing in her head when she reads that).

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    Default Re: What's a good next move?

    I sent her a generic second text because I don't want to come across as Over-Eager Beaver. I can certainly do better, the question from me is when do I tell her that today was awesome and that I saw a guy who totally looked like Shatner in Yerba Buena that reminded me of her acting abilities and when she's going to do an impression for me next.

    Okay. Maybe that was terrible. Point is that I don't always send generic texts

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    Default Re: What's a good next move?

    Point taken. So, next, or salvage plan?

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    Default Re: What's a good next move?

    LOL! I was actually making a joke based on your last line... You wrote "Point is that I don't always send generic texts"
    I couldn't resist the opportunity.

    You can totally salvage your situation with this girl though.

    Just put some ideas together to spark attraction & get her attention.

    Even something like, "Heya Nerd-Ball, I think I'm gonna stow away on a plane to Fiji... wanna come? "

    It'll be almost impossible for her NOT to respond.

    ;o)


    Then start having fun with the texts & be a little bolder with the flirting.


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    Thumbs up Re: What's a good next move?

    ShortStuff, you are right, do not be eager in starting and continue your communication with any medium and as time will pass, you will get better idea, "what can you do now".
    I think as time is passing, you are feeling more strong your relationship.

    Best of luck.



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