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    Default What do you do on a date?

    I mainly like study and work. I rarely play. One reason is that I don't have time to play, I think it would be better if I study or work with the time of playing, second I think that playing/activities will waste my money; third I don't feel that I am good at playing, I don't have that instinct, I often feel that I'm clumsy when I play, therefore I always try to avoid it. What activities do you do on a date?

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    Default Re: What do you do on a date?

    If you're talking about date ideas, there a plenty! These a good for first dates:

    Coffee, Walk in a nice area, people watching, go for ice cream, roller blading/ice skating, mini golf. Download the Art of Charm app, it's free and gives a bunch of date ideas.

    As for what I actually do, I feel a date is a time to build rapport, because obviously she's on a date with you cuz she's already attracted. So my main focus is getting to know each other, some interesting stories (they aren't dhv stories, but they're funny and interesting). And a little bit of banter is always good too. I've actually rarely had the problem of running out of things to say on a date, just because I know what topics I want to talk about, what stories I want to tell, and it really only takes 2 or 3 dates to get decent at it. My last girlfriend, on our first date we talked for 4 hours straight. Longest I've ever talked with a girl lol

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    Default Re: What do you do on a date?

    There's a good video on youtube called :
    "How to hold conversation like a man" by Nick Sparks,he explains pretty much everything you need to know.

    In short he says that you don't have to try hard,and both of you have to contribute to the conversation.

    1st Date you usually go someplace to talk/to get to know each other.

    2nd you would go somewhere you would BOTH have fun like bowling or something suggested above.

    3rd and on,just improvise,you can even google - you have tons of ideas.

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    Default Re: What do you do on a date?

    Anything "original" is best. If you know of a place where lots of first dates happen do not go there. Make a plan that isn't dinner and a movie. Go to a few different locations on the first date, it makes the time you spend with her seem extended. My first date goes something like this: Dinner, an art museum I know closes at five, but I always take them to the gardens behind it so we can "break some rules", my place to change because I left the rest of my cash in my other jeans, that way she gets comfortable in my house during the day, then off for drinks at a few bars. Originality, different locations, and being badass is always a good idea. By the way, ladies love dancing, like way too much. Learn to dance sir.

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    Wink Re: What do you do on a date?

    Talk about her and the things she is interested in. You would not have much problem in keeping the conversation going on.

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    Default Re: What do you do on a date?

    Yep, as others mentioned it all about great conversation and building attraction. If you only like to study and work I assume you want a girl who is similar so seek out someone who also likes to work and study and a) you will have lots to talk about and b) you can move it quickly to 'come over and study at my place'.

    Obviously if you are a nerd studying astrophysics and rarely go out you're probably not needing to impress a Stripper with conversations about cool night spots.

    Coffee, quick casual dinner, drink are usually good. Somewhere you can chat.

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    Default Re: What do you do on a date?

    OP the solution for your problem is in this cheap ebook. Get it's preview and check its table of contents. You will see there is a complete guide for online dating which includes blueprints for the first, second and third dates.

    https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00KB4CKXK

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    Default Re: What do you do on a date?

    I like to do activities with my dates as opposed to simply sitting and talking. Especially if the activity involves "free Kino" and you are good at that activity.

    As an example, I go rock climbing every week. So I take girls there, they usually suck at it and I can dhv while I am doing it and kino them to show them how to place their hands or help push them up if they are stuck somewhere on the boulder walls.

    Activities are especially good if the girl is shy or if you are not a good conversationalist as it will give the two of you something to talk about and focus on the experience. Hope that helps.

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    Default Re: What do you do on a date?

    Activities are better for later dates IMO. As a first date it's a lot of investment for you and her.

    You can use time constraints to your advantage. 'lets grab a quick coffee or drink'. It keeps it very casual and easy.

    If you are shy in talking to a girl, then you need practice.

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    Default Re: What do you do on a date?

    whatever you do... do not ask her "PLEASE FACK ME!"


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