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Thread: T-Mal's "Shopping Game"

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    Default T-Mal's "Shopping Game"

    OK, I've been having waaaaaay too much fun with this one.

    For those of you who suffer from Approach Anxiety because you're unsure of what to say, this could help you tremendously.

    I came up with this totally by accident, but now I'm purposely doing this when I'm out in public... especially while shopping. (Mall, grocery store, clothing store, movie store...etc it doesn't matter.)

    Here's the scoop:
    I was at the grocery store looking at something on the shelf. I had no clue there was a girl behind me & I turned around & bumped right into her. BAM!

    So, I immediately use the accident to create some humor & apologize for being a klutz. I basically said, "Dang! Sorry about that. You're right behind me looking at cereal & I'm pushing you straight into the rack... I guess I wanted to make sure you got a REALLY GOOD look at it." And I laugh & wink at her.

    She laughs & says, "Oh it's ok, you're fine"

    So I reply back with, "Well I KNOW I'm fine" *wink... (implying I'm sexy, in a super cheesy/cheeky way) "but I'm still knocking you into stuff like a crazy man." *playful elbow nudge

    We both go about our shopping... laughing a bit more though.

    Sooooo I thought to myself, HEY! This would be a great way to "accidentally" meet girls. So I started having these "accidents" on a regular basis whenever I go out.

    I purposely keep an eye out for where a good looking girl is, & strategically position myself so I can "accidentally" run into her or cut her off in some way.

    Just a couple little steps & OOOOPS again.
    Then I commence with the playful "apology" & really sell it.

    I've also done it where I set the girl up to run into ME. (Even more fun) I'll say something like "Wow! I'm just here minding my own business, & all of a sudden I'm getting hunted down by crazy ladies in the store." Smile/wink

    They get SOOOOO apologetic & surprised... it's hilarious.
    But play it up! Big time!

    I then go on to tell her, "Actually, it's been the highlight of my day." smile/wink "I could get used to being jolted by attractive girls on a daily basis... where are you gonna be tomorrow??" *elbow nudge/smile/wink

    You get the idea.

    If you do this a few times, you will absolutely lose your approach anxiety! Because you're not going up to talk to her about fruit, or a shirt, or a movie etc... You're just doing your own thing & then...

    "BANG" you bump into each other. THAT is your opener!


    All you have to do now is, play it up & have fun.

    You can keep jiving with her & start flirting a bit... making her laugh & really have a good time with it. And it makes getting her number a piece of cake too.

    Seriously, try this out if you're really shy about approaching. Because this ELIMINATES the approach. It creates a sort of "chance encounter".

    You can really get all cheesy with it too, if you want.
    You can say things like "Well, fancy running into you here!"

    or

    "Wow... some guys might try hitting on you... and I just plain hit you! What a jerk I AM huh?" laugh / wink / smile

    Or any other silly, over-the-top cheesy banter lines making bad jokes like that. (Remember, this is day game... you can be complimentary AND cheesy & still get away with it.)

    But seriously, this is almost like setting a girl up to approach you! It doesn't get much easier than that.





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    Default Re: T-Mal's "Shopping Game"

    Haha, funny stuff man. Totally gonna try it.

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    Default Re: T-Mal's "Shopping Game"

    Another tip:
    If you're walking around town, you can pretend you're looking at your phone & "accidentally" walk into your target.

    It's the same overall idea as running into them in a store or anywhere else. The point is, guys are always trying to find the "perfect opener". This is it!
    You don't have to say a thing to open the girl. All you have to do is express confidence, humor & charm when you "apologize" for the mishap.


    Also- lots of women actually fantasize about meeting their Prince Charming via some "chance encounter"... the idea is extremely romantic & alluring to them. So why not make it happen?





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    Default Re: T-Mal's "Shopping Game"

    Fantastic idea! I'm always trying to come up with better ways to approach women in stores. I'm gonna have some fun with this one.

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    Default Re: T-Mal's "Shopping Game"

    Oh yeah! You can use this technique anywhere... I just did it at the bank a little while ago, while I was waiting in line in front a cutie.

    I was checking Facebook on my phone & "accidentally" backed into her, while she was doing something on HER phone.
    So I was like,
    "Wow... I just gave you a prime opportunity to "pick-pocket" me... and you totally blew it! Remind me NOT to choose you for any mad-cap adventures in the future." *wink/smile

    She laughed & turned red in the face.
    Mission accomplished.

    I left it at that... but I just couldn't pass up the opportunity to keep sharpening my skills.



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    Default Re: T-Mal's "Shopping Game"

    I've actually done this before. One time years ago I was walking down the street on a college campus, saw a cute girl in front of me, and purposely walked faster and bumped into her. I said something like "excuse me! You need to watch where you're going! (big smile)" We bantered a little the I said "Hey my friends and I are going to a dark alley to drink. You're cool, come with us (Smile, wink)"

    Although that last line was terrible, I was confident and she came. My buddies dhv'd the crap out of me and I was walking back to her dorm 45 minutes later!

    Something else I've done that's similar to this is walk in front of a girl (usually someone I already know) then say "Hey a penny". You then bend over and pretend to pick something up. If you do this correctly she will "accidentally" run straight into your butt in like a doggy style position. Then you can say something like "Woah there Beth! We're in public! (Big smile)" or anything you want that insinuates that she was trying to get all over you.

    Great post T-Mal! You just reminded me of things I USED to do years ago that worked. I'm going to reach back in my tool box and use them again.

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    Default Re: T-Mal's "Shopping Game"

    This is actually one of the only ways to open girls on the Subway in NYC effectively. Direct approaches don't work because girls are too guarded (this includes indirect openers).

    My thing on the subway is to place my hand on an HB's "accidentally" while reaching for the hand rail. At that point you give a coy smile and throw out a line like, "We've only just met and we're already reaching for each others' hands." Or, "I'm still trying to get used to this subway thing. Good thing I have someone to hold my hand throw it."
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: T-Mal's "Shopping Game"

    LoL I once got a cashiers number by throwing a lime at her and telling her that my mom always told me, hey you wanna get a pretty girl's attention throw something at her and then went about a conversation. Same kinda deal heh.

    another fun one I've done is to end up "bumping" into a girl several times at the store and accusing her of stalking me heh.
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    Default Re: T-Mal's "Shopping Game"

    Nice!
    Anything that most guys would be afraid to do is gonna be golden!!

    The more memorable you are, the more success you're gonna have..



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    Wink Re: T-Mal's "Shopping Game"

    Awesome This may be the thing that i need. I will try it


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