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Thread: Friendzone/undo

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    Default Friendzone/undo

    Hey out there! Eddie here for a short story followed by a question. So today I went to hang out with this cool chick two years ahead of me (I'm still in high school) not thinking of dating whatsoever. Just looking for a good time. Anyways, we met at a bubble tea place then walked over to a park. At first (prior to this hang out) she gave me really long tedious hugs (not complaining) and we went to the park and we basically laid down on top of a flat platform about 6 feet above ground on a playground. Her head rested on my and such. We did this for about 30 mins or so just chatting, then I got up to talk to switch it up a bit. Every 5 mins she was looking through her phone (reflection) to fix her appearance and her feet were towards me. Like all the time. We shared thoughts and I could tell she really wanted to kiss me. I would have, but I have never kissed a girl before. I knew what to do, but I couldn't pull myself to do it. I had perfect opportunities but I couldn't. I then told her (idk why I did) that I had never kissed a girl before. She proceeded to slowly lose interest and I couldn't get her interested after that. I left eventually feeling like crap, so I just left it. I really just want to kiss her, not even date. Just once. We could have gotten somehwere if I had done something, but she friend zoned me.

    So how can I get her out on a date again, and how do I kiss her? I have the technique (I think) but not the courage.

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    Default Re: Friendzone/undo

    How do I get her attracted again?

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    Default Re: Friendzone/undo

    Your best bet is to ramp up your text game, since that's gonna determine whether or not you can schedule a meet up with her again.

    There are quite a few threads on texting, so you should be able to get in a groove there.

    And you're gonna have to work on your core confidence. Don't be afraid of the kiss.
    HONESTLY, in all my years, I have NEVER known a girl who doesn't like to kiss, or doesn't want to be kissed.

    So there's no need to be afraid of kissing her.
    You DO have to build attraction first... otherwise you'll run into the awkward resistance.
    But if you've done your job with flirting, the kiss WILL happen.




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    Default Re: Friendzone/undo

    Thanks T-mal. I actually didn't flirt too much but she was giving me all the signs of interest. Her body pointing towards me, her feet, but she wasn't looking at my lips,so I wasn't sure if it was gonna work. Also when we hugged before it went downhill, she quested my butt

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    Default Re: Friendzone/undo

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    HONESTLY, in all my years, I have NEVER known a girl who doesn't like to kiss, or doesn't want to be kissed.
    Sorry to be the party pooper, but I have encountered a girl like that before. If you find a girl religious or conservative enough, they will not falter unless you go into a relationship with them. I used to move on without a second thought when this happened, but considering that I am now searching more so for personality than looks, I don't throw out what's in front of me right away.

    There are two approaches to get her to like you, both yielding its risks. Either you can do what T-Mal suggested and ramp up your text game, or you can back off for a while and come back latter. If you ramp up your text game, you could potentially alienate her and drive her away from you, while the latter could result in her being a lost cause and hopeless for restarting things.

    Both could work out in your advantage by changing the context between you two and ultimately getting her with you, but both have their negatives. I personally would embrace her as a friend and use her as a bridge into other social groups. There, I would easily be able to find more girls that I could hook up with, and I already know I have the advantage with her being a friend and favored towards me.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: Friendzone/undo

    Thanks swagman and T-Mal! I really appreciate it. I feel really weird now. Because nothing happened, even if I see her be online in facebook, I feel awkward or like I didn't achieve anything.

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    Default Re: Friendzone/undo

    Quote Originally Posted by G0ldwing View Post
    Thanks swagman and T-Mal! I really appreciate it. I feel really weird now. Because nothing happened, even if I see her be online in facebook, I feel awkward or like I didn't achieve anything.
    Bro you gotta stop dwelling on it like you just screwed up with the only person who will ever talk to you. I used to be nervous as sh!t going to kiss a girl to the point where I was visibly shaking. It was embarrassing. You just gotta do it no matter how bad you think you'll be. Experience is the best teacher my friend. But yeah, she's just a girl. I can't tell you the amount of EASY opportunities to have sex with beautiful girls I messed up because I was too nervous. Too many! Don't do that to yourself. The only bad experience is the one you didn't learn anything from. You learned a lesson, so move on to the next!

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    Default Re: Friendzone/undo

    Bro my first kiss was with a MOM.

    You need to just take chances and live life. Your first kiss will probably be terrible. Just embarrass it and accept that.

    Other than that, TAKE A CHANCE MAN! YOU ONLY LIVE LIFE ONCE! SHE WANTED TO KISS YOU!

    The worst that happens....she rejects you. Oh well, rejection isn't even bad, and she'll admire that you have BALLS to try it.

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    Default Re: Friendzone/undo

    Second that. Balls are underrated!


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