Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Results 1 to 5 of 5
Like Tree1Likes
  • 1 Post By theeights

Thread: That shitty club situation

  1. #1
    Sleath5's Avatar
    Sleath5 is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 727, Level: 14
    Level completed: 27%, Points required for next Level: 73
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    500 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    Apr 2013
    Location
    Vancouver
    Posts
    83
    Points
    727
    Level
    14
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    35

    Thumbs down That shitty club situation

    Alright, im pretty drunk right now but lets see what I can hammer out.


    I promote at this club, and we had a big artist out tonight. I meet this girl who's a total tease, and because of our age different will keep calling me '95. But she still makes out with me. Eventually, after doing this a few times while leaving and talking to other people she gets jealous and complains how im talking to other girls.

    I say "what I cant talk to my other friends?" to which she ignores and says your so into ther other girls why dont you go dance with them blah blah blah.

    End of the night, we make out a little more and she and her firend are heading back to their hotel, which she has mentioned to me several times. I walk them back, with her saying you can walk us but you cant come in. I do get in, saying that I need to take a rest. Her friend seems to be queen bi**h and whatever she says goes. She said I needed to go. After 10 minutes of "im tired I need a rest" I go to leave. The girl who wants to hook up with me walks me out, and outside says in disbelief "why are you going??"

    I said pretty much I can stay, came back in, and got a cold shoulder from the friend. At this point I said fuck it and left, because I was putting way too much effort in since she was acting like an LG.


    Overall, I was ignoring the age difference, but she persisted in bringing it up. She chased me once I almost left the hotel room indicating she wanted to hook up, but still said she wanted me to leave. Girls eh?

    How else coudl I of handeld this?

    Cheers

  2. #2
    theeights is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 462, Level: 9
    Level completed: 24%, Points required for next Level: 38
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered500 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Dec 2013
    Posts
    118
    Points
    462
    Level
    9
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 3 Times in 3 Posts
    Rep Power
    26

    Default Re: That shitty club situation

    Question: Why is age relevant?
    If she teases you, tease her right back!


    As for how to handle it differently... Let me get this straight.
    1. She wants to hook up.
    2. You can't stay.

    So why don't you just bounce to a different location and hook up with her?

  3. #3
    Ra1d is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 1,477, Level: 22
    Level completed: 77%, Points required for next Level: 23
    Overall activity: 5.0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered1000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Oct 2012
    Posts
    185
    Points
    1,477
    Level
    22
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    74

    Default Re: That shitty club situation

    Quote Originally Posted by psychoactive View Post

    So why don't you just bounce to a different location and hook up with her?
    Exactly,man,you either go for a threesome or just move to a different location,you can't expect her friend to approve of this.

  4. #4
    Sleath5's Avatar
    Sleath5 is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 727, Level: 14
    Level completed: 27%, Points required for next Level: 73
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    500 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    Apr 2013
    Location
    Vancouver
    Posts
    83
    Points
    727
    Level
    14
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    35

    Default Re: That shitty club situation

    No, I wanted to stay and I could, but they wouldn't let me. Her friend specifically. The girl also seemed majorly controlled by the friend who was giving me the cold shoulder. I should of asked, but I feel like the friend would of told her no. Throughout the night she would barely leave her friends side as well.

    I was friendly to both as well, not ignoring the friend.

  5. #5
    I.M.Mortal's Avatar
    I.M.Mortal is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 6,582, Level: 56
    Level completed: 16%, Points required for next Level: 168
    Overall activity: 55.0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered5000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Jan 2013
    Location
    Cali
    Posts
    450
    Points
    6,582
    Level
    56
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    293

    Default Re: That shitty club situation

    You know once in a while you will come across situations where the friend is a total bitch and nothing you can do will matter. It is what it is.

    Dealing with this situation is no different than dealing with girl with guy friends who are amoging/cockblocking you.

    This is when you should say "Hey, you know what? I would've stayed, but your friend is really being a total buzzkill, let's go elsewhere." (You can even tease her about her age turning tables on her) You seem very matured for your young age, figured you can keep me interested for a while."

    If she really likes you or is interested in you, she will make an effort.

    If not exchange # and tell her when she can get away from her friend, come and find you. Remember, you are the prize man. You are the promoter of the event. Nothing to lose, man. A girl like this who is jealous screams red flags.


Similar Threads

  1. How to get over a shitty night?
    By TheLardIsHere in forum Field Reports
    Replies: 12
    Last Thread: 05-01-2013, 10:17 PM
  2. Dance Club Game need help with bouncing/after the club
    By TheArms in forum Field Reports
    Replies: 4
    Last Thread: 10-02-2012, 11:07 AM
  3. just got out of the club.
    By Blondy in forum Field Reports
    Replies: 1
    Last Thread: 11-07-2011, 10:19 PM
  4. Replies: 1
    Last Thread: 06-27-2011, 05:59 PM
  5. "Shitty" openers and approaches
    By Newbee in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 6
    Last Thread: 09-17-2010, 11:16 AM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com