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Thread: The Switch - I'm living out a Seinfeld episode! HELP!

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    Default The Switch - I'm living out a Seinfeld episode! HELP!

    For those of you who watch seinfeld, then you know exactly what I'm talking about...for those of you who don't, let me explain my scenario:

    I'm out last Friday with a friend (she might think we're more than that), much older HB8, and we're at a show for one of her old friends that is performing. We grab drinks at my place before hand and she asks me if her best friend, and future roommate, can come over as well. I agree happily and this way I'll have some more social proof in the venue.

    Fast forward, we get to the venue and I'm incredibly in state and working a good majority of the room. Interestingly, me and the best friend instantly hit it off and seem to have to chemistry but I'm stuck in a bad position because HB8 is really into me (and we made out after one of the songs...oops). I'm also getting ioi's from the best friend and from a few other women I chatted up for small talk.

    The three of us end the night we some late night food and HB8 and I say goodbye to her friend and head back to my place. She ends up sleeping over but I tried to avoid the F-close so that maybe, JUST MAYBE, I can make "the switch" to her friend.

    So, it's been over a week and I haven't texted HB8 because I really feel terrible about being into her best friend but I can't help it, we just hit it off. I'd love to see the friend again but I have no idea how to go about this.

    Any help/advice would be great. Has anyone else been in this situation before?

    As always, thanks, guys - Shoreguy
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    Default Re: The Switch - I'm living out a Seinfeld episode! HELP!

    Did you get the friends cell phone number ????

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    Default Re: The Switch - I'm living out a Seinfeld episode! HELP!

    Dude... PLEASE try the menage a trois!! I have never been in that position and always wondered if it might work, like in the Seinfeld episode! I will pay you money to give it a try!

    Yeah, you risk losing both, but I say, for the sake of knowledge, it's worth it!

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    Default Re: The Switch - I'm living out a Seinfeld episode! HELP!

    As crazy as it sounds at first, I was really thinking about going for it!! Haha, I'm just not sure if I'm willing to risk it yet if there might be a smarter way to pull it off.

    Thoughts?
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    Default Re: The Switch - I'm living out a Seinfeld episode! HELP!

    Go for it. Hero status if you can make it happen. If you can make the older HB8 agree to the idea, then the best friend would probably be in. Just make sure when you mention it, it can be passed off as a joke if her reaction is bad.

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    Default Re: The Switch - I'm living out a Seinfeld episode! HELP!

    I've had a cool lesbian friend explain to me the menagetrois angle... Basically, one of the girls should be into girls. Not full on Lez or Bi necassarily... Just into girls. Because you and her will have to game the third girl. It seemed to me that, aside from drunk pickups, girls have a way easier time convincing girls to do this. Being that they are best friends could be a problem because then to them It would be like having sex with a sister. But some familiarity is needed between both girls. So if they are close friends, not like grew up together and were friends forever kinda friends, it could still work.

    Anyway, just game both. If the best friend isn't in to you, you always have the HB8. The make out may have given the 8 the impression that you guys are in a relationship, but being as nothing is official, just continue being awesome and try to get the best friend out with you guys. Or better yet, if 8 is unavail, ask the Besty if she wants to go. Has to be something non sexual tho. No romantic dinner with the besty lol.

    Have fun! Update us later!
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    Default Re: The Switch - I'm living out a Seinfeld episode! HELP!

    A threesome isn't as difficult to arrange as you might think.
    It's REALLY easy with night / club game when you're out by yourself & game a 2-set.

    Even easier when a 2-set games YOU!... but my experiences with that (yes PLURAL) came when I was still playing drums in a rock band... so that's definitely not a typical scenario.

    But, 2 girls out together having a fun night, are more likely to go for a threesome than most guys would even imagine.

    It just requires a lot of confidence.. especially with physical & emotional escalation. And you MUST show equal interest in both girls. It's all about teasing & flirting... making your interest & intentions known early on.... which is, that you want to be with BOTH of them.

    Don't pick a favorite.... & don't make one of them feel like the third wheel. They need to feel like they're partners in getting you. Like they're "the dynamic duo" (I've used that phrase before).

    Tell them that the power of suggestion the two of them have combined, is making you have naughty thoughts about taking BOTH of them home with you.

    Start making fun, suggestive, flirty comments & light jokes about a threesome early on when you have their attention & interest, and you know there's attraction built up.

    A "Statement of Intent" goes a LOT further than most guys ever realize.

    Here's what I mean:
    When you're talking to 2 girls & you make a couple of fun, sexy comments about a threesome & they don't bail out on you, then there's REAL interest. It's just up to you to confidently go for it.

    Because, if a girl (or girls) aren't interested, or if you creep them out, then they'll leave.
    But if they stick around & continue hanging with you, all you have to do is reel them in, because they're already hooked.

    Seriously... pay attention to those signs.

    A girl will eject if you have no chance.
    But she'll STAY if she's interested in what you have to offer.
    100% of the time.





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