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Thread: response to "oh imsure you'll find someone"

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    Default response to "oh imsure you'll find someone"

    Ive been gaming this girl for about 3 mos now and im about to come to a point to give her an ultimatum. I have learned to make sure the girl has strong attraction first before you reveal your intentions. My question is you try to make her qualify and she doesnt bite how would you respond if she says 'aww.. im sure you'll find someone...'

    For example, (both of us roleplay bf/gf. she plays along with it. she's a workaholic and your trying to make her qualify)
    Me: "I don't want to be a boyfriend who works all the time. Life is short and i want to spend most of my time with my girl.)
    Her: "aww... im sure you'll find someone"
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    Default Re: response to "oh imsure you'll find someone"

    MAD AFC bro.

    Here's a tip: Girls say they to be the center of your world, but like it better when they aren't. They like a man who puts his passions and goals over them. Saying you would rather spend most of your time in life with your girl is pretty AFC and probably looked mad desperate

    Secondly, if you've been gaming for three months, ur gaming probably stinks and from the sound of it, you're pretty darn deep in the friendzone.

    Finally, you're pretty wrong about the intentions thing. You make your intentions clear from the VERY beginning and build attraction, then rapport, from there

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    Default Re: response to "oh imsure you'll find someone"

    Quote Originally Posted by SCooper2031 View Post
    MAD AFC bro.

    Here's a tip: Girls say they to be the center of your world, but like it better when they aren't. They like a man who puts his passions and goals over them. Saying you would rather spend most of your time in life with your girl is pretty AFC and probably looked mad desperate

    Secondly, if you've been gaming for three months, ur gaming probably stinks and from the sound of it, you're pretty darn deep in the friendzone.

    Finally, you're pretty wrong about the intentions thing. You make your intentions clear from the VERY beginning and build attraction, then rapport, from there
    Thank you for the tip about what girls like in a guy. She just broke up with her bf for 5 years and im the closest person she's with right now. Im working on staying away from the friendzone right now. She knows that i like her because her friends support me and jokingly telling her to pick me over her bf. I would just like to know some great responses to my question. I want to know what to say just in case. Thank you for the responses
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    Default Re: response to "oh imsure you'll find someone"

    Basically she disqualified herself as a potential suitor.

    How would I respond ?Off the top of my head :

    Her :"I'm sure you'll find someone"
    You :"I'm sure I will,Do you have any cute girl-friends I could meet ?Not that I'm implying that you're not cute enough...But,we're too much a like. We'd never get along,because we'd never have anything significant to argue about. So we'd have to make up petty little things to fight about... And I'd always win"

    The 2nd part is Mystery,basically instead of her disqualifying herself,you accept it,and tell her that you didn't actually see yourself as a potential suitor,so you'd rather have one of her friends.

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    Default Re: response to "oh imsure you'll find someone"

    Quote Originally Posted by SCooper2031 View Post
    Finally, you're pretty wrong about the intentions thing. You make your intentions clear from the VERY beginning and build attraction, then rapport, from there
    Umm, original "game" came from Indirect Game. The whole purpose of which is to hide ones intentions and create plausible deniability.

    Anyone who has a solid understanding of game will admit that both direct and indirect game have their place and time. Where women are likely to feel threatened, indirect game is often a much better choice than Direct Game.

    Of course, in the OP's situation, we're looking at someone who has dug themselves into the friendzone by not sexually escalating soon enough.
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    Default Re: response to "oh imsure you'll find someone"

    Quote Originally Posted by TheDuke View Post
    Umm, original "game" came from Indirect Game. The whole purpose of which is to hide ones intentions and create plausible deniability.

    Anyone who has a solid understanding of game will admit that both direct and indirect game have their place and time. Where women are likely to feel threatened, indirect game is often a much better choice than Direct Game.

    Of course, in the OP's situation, we're looking at someone who has dug themselves into the friendzone by not sexually escalating soon enough.
    Ah, got ahead of myself and didn't even think about indirect game lol. But either in both direct and indirect, you're taking action and asking her out early on

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    Default Re: response to "oh imsure you'll find someone"

    Quote Originally Posted by cockofzeus View Post

    Me: "I don't want to be a boyfriend who works all the time. Life is short and i want to spend most of my time with my girl.

    Her: "aww... im sure you'll find someone"
    Your original message is very AFC as others have pointed out. After she said her "I am sure you'll find someone...."

    You should have responded with this:

    "Tell me something I don't know? ( This has to be said in a funny, sarcastic way). It's just a matter of picking out who it is and when I want to be in that type of a relationship. Having a dozen females to choose from isn't easy. It takes some to time choose. Problems, problems , problems." ( Say this with a sly smile on your face)

    Be alpha in your responses and convey that she isn't your only choice. You should be gaming lots of other girls while you are gaming her. Never put all of your eggs in one basket. You'll be disappointed if you do.

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    Default Re: response to "oh imsure you'll find someone"

    bro, you just don't come up with an ultimatum. just have fun, let her invest in you and the relationship, sit back and relax let her game you and bang one day she will come up with an ultimatum.
    and when she said "i'm sure you will find someone...." you could have responded like "i'm sure i will" and change the subject.
    Nice guys don't finish last, boring guys does.


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