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    Default How should i open this girl

    Okay so there's this girl on facebook that seems to use this status alot which is if you are attractive have a dick and can hold a convo inbox. So how should i open her? suggestions I dont want to be like the hundred other guys inboxing her i want to grab her attention.

    I think shes a bit of a teaser I over heard a convo at a club once were a guy simply walked up to her and said hello and she turned around and said u lost me at hello lol and walked off so thats the type of girl she is. I've seen her around alot and shes hot as fork ideas.?

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    Default Re: How should i open this girl

    She kind of sounds like a bitch who gets a thrill out of rejecting guys and feeling attractive from it. The best way to handle this girl is to act unattracted to her which is hard because you have to show some interest to send her an FB message in the first place. I would say something along the lines of, "You must be one brave, adventurous girl to be so open to meeting new people on the dangerous internet like that, I like that What other crazy adventurous things are you in to?" which beats the hell out of all the, "Hey" messages shes getting from AFC's haha.

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    Default Re: How should i open this girl

    Definitely don't send her a "Hey" message. lol Yea, trying to get a girl like that on Facebook is going to be a real challenge. She probably loves having her ego boosted from having random C's send her messages everyday. It's like Christmas morning every morning for her. You said you've seen her out before. I'd just develop a strategy for the next time you see her in public. I don't think you will get anywhere with her on Facebook. She's just gonna read your email, get her ego boosted, and then delete it.

    I've found that it's never good to rush into a situation when it comes to approaching women. Sooooo many times I have said to myself, "I'm gonna f-close that girl someday" and as long I would have a fair amount of interaction with them it just happened on it's own. I don't try any fancy stuff. In fact in my mind I've already concluded that it's going to happen and it's only a matter of time so I don't have this entire "trying to hit on her" vibe, and maybe that's what gets them.

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    Default Re: How should i open this girl

    THAT type of girl usually responds well to something BOLD.
    You need to express confidence, humor & non-neediness, as well as seemingly being unimpressed by her, while at the same time, expressing hints that you're interested.

    Sound complicated?
    It is... if you've never encountered this type of girl before.

    But if you HAVE run into this type on a couple other occasions, you'll realize that she's looking for a MAN who isn't intimidated by a girl with a slight bit of a "bitchy" side, and who knows how to joke around with her.


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    Post Re: How should i open this girl

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    THAT type of girl usually responds well to something BOLD.
    You need to express confidence, humor & non-neediness, as well as seemingly being unimpressed by her, while at the same time, expressing hints that you're interested.

    Sound complicated?
    It is... if you've never encountered this type of girl before.

    But if you HAVE run into this type on a couple other occasions, you'll realize that she's looking for a MAN who isn't intimidated by a girl with a slight bit of a "bitchy" side, and who knows how to joke around with her.
    Don't even think these kinds of girls are worth it. Why would anyone want such a woman that is so starved for attention. Whoever does get her is going to be one busy man. Lol. I had one of those. Always B'ing about me not texting her/calling her. This and that. I told her we were just F buddies, but even then she was still high maintenance.

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    Default Re: How should i open this girl

    It DOES require a certain kind of guy who can handle this type of girl...

    And the ones who CAN, are in for quite a treat.


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    Default Re: How should i open this girl

    I would use an opener like this, " Hey, you sound like more trouble than fun. It's the fun part I can't handle but it's the trouble you are that that intrigues me. Don't let me down."

    No guy is going to say that to her. The statement basically means nothing. She will start to qualify herself as to why she isn't trouble. Guaranteed that you get a message back.

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    Default Re: How should i open this girl

    Quote Originally Posted by dave_xxx View Post
    I would use an opener like this, " Hey, you sound like more trouble than fun. It's the fun part I can't handle but it's the trouble you are that that intrigues me. Don't let me down."

    No guy is going to say that to her. The statement basically means nothing. She will start to qualify herself as to why she isn't trouble. Guaranteed that you get a message back.
    Total reverse psychology AND a bit of a challenge for her.
    Brilliant!


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    Cool Re: How should i open this girl

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    It DOES require a certain kind of guy who can handle this type of girl...

    And the ones who CAN, are in for quite a treat.
    I don't think it's that I can't handle it. It's just I don't want to lol, and I typically play them as just booty calls and nothing more. Just because I don't see them as relationship material. However, due to the high level of neediness they require they don't really like being treated like true BCs. They say "We're just BC's for each other right?" And I'm like "For sure!" Then they treat me like their boyfriend. Maybe they are just testing me whenever they ask me that question.
    *Ponders*

    Hmm, maybe I'll try saying "No" next time and see how it goes lol. It's just the last one I really wanted to f-close, and she said the only way we would have sex was if I agreed to just be BC partners.

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