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    Default Complimenting HBs?

    Just curious if it's alright to ever compliment HBs since when complimenting beauty etc. adds value to them when you should be adding value to yourself?

    I've made this mistake before where I'll compliment them and they reply with a simple "well thank you!" I never know how to come back and reply to that other than try switching it into a neg and saying stuff like I'm softening them up since I'm looking for an easy fight or something (I'm an martial artist)

    Just curious about compliments in general?

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    Default Re: Complimenting HBs?

    If you make a direct approach,you can easily tell a girl that you approached her,because she looked stunning so you needed to come over and talk to her.

    Over all I never compliment on the looks,usually clothes/jewelry,they're more pleased to know that you appreciate their taste(and the fact that she's probably spent a while deciding what to wear).

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    Default Re: Complimenting HBs?

    Just curious about compliments in general?
    ah, good question.

    you can use compliments, butyou have to throw them a little sideways. when you compliment her instead of making statements (witch will get her to say thank you and leave you looking for something else to say) you need to make questions out of your compliments.

    example

    me: wow, you're hair is wicked! how do you get it to do that?
    her: well... I use lots of hair spray..... blah blah blah

    see what I did there? I gave her a compliment on her hair, but I made it into an open ended question so she would have to say something more than just thank you.

    another more risky approach to it, is to use statements that include the compliment, but aren't just a compliment.

    example

    me: oh great banker lady, I must have you use your superpowers to deposit this paycheck of mine

    her: (giggles) I think I can do that, as long as it isn't secretly coated in kryptonite

    me: I'd be careful then, my boss can be quite spiteful

    there I made her feel special by simply exaggerating the importance of her job (indirect compliment that will make her feel important)

    of course there are infinite possibilities for what you can do. just as long as your compliment is genuine and framed so you won't get the typical "thank you"

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    Default Re: Complimenting HBs?

    Wow I like that a lot actually. I see how just a minor change in the compliment completely reformed the outcome I think from now on I'll have to do things that way. It's so frustrating getting a thank you then not knowing what to follow up with.

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    Default Re: Complimenting HBs?

    if you want to neg her just compliment her and when she says "thank you" you just say "i was joking but you do look attractive" in a joking manner of course and then move in to introduction. works for me all the time. use it on your own risk though
    Nice guys don't finish last, boring guys does.

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    Default Re: Complimenting HBs?

    I'm willing to give that a shot, I'd probably practice a few times on random girls though before legitimately trying to use it. How do you set something like that up with a positive reply?


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