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Thread: HB way too hot and cold?

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    Default Re: HB way too hot and cold?

    Ah right I've noticed a bit of that whenever I go out with any friends that are girls, whether it be the club, mall, movies etc.

    My only question is how do I bring about saying lets just be friends to this girl and also when I turn the tables can I just make anything up or is there a specific way of doing it?

    Also thanks for the help guys, I'm learning quite a bit. Still very rusty from getting out of a 2+ year relationship.

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    Default Re: HB way too hot and cold?

    Well at this point I'd still let her contact you. Once she contacts you you could respond with something like "Aw it's always nice to hear from a friend. What have you been up to?" Instead of doing the, "Who is this?" tactic. You got a lot of options depending on how you want to go about it. I'd leave her be for now though, and let her contact you.

    When it comes to the "turning of the tables." I would just be seeing other girls. Because this girl is just your friend. Treat her like one. Ask her opinion on girls that you are dating or going on dates with. If she's extremely eager to help you with girls I wouldn't count on the tables ever turning, but she will be more than eager to help you get other girls, which is a great thing. I wouldn't make up fictitious girls to see if she gets jealous. Just be genuine and real. Have the mentality that she is just another guy friend you have. Well, don't tell her everything you tell your guy friends, but just ask her opinion on different female situations your in, and see how she responds.

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    Default Re: HB way too hot and cold?

    Okay that makes a lot of sense, seems to be a better way to go about it.

    I think waiting for her to contact or just maybe even having the right opportunity to do so would be best in terms of going about the lets just be friends thing. I think I sort of tried the advice on another girl thing before and I remember her asking how come I was asking her for help and she seemed interested more but I went on a bit of a vacation after that and she knew it didn't work out with the other girl so the interest eventually died back down on her part I believe.


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