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    Default I Think She's Avoiding Me

    So I went out of the way to talk to this girl and she said some awkward... stuff. I usually see her on the second floor but I hadn't seen her for a few days after that until today I looked up and she was on the third floor balcony. I think she was looking at me through the glass but I don't know if that matters.

    Is it more likely that she's avoiding me because she's embarrassed or because I tried too hard to talk to her?

    What do you do about girls that avoid you? Because I feel like a creep.

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    Default Re: I Think She's Avoiding Me

    Well what exactly did she say that was "awkward?"
    And also give a bit more detail as to how you went out of your way. Your post is pretty hard to decipher with so little information.

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    Default Re: I Think She's Avoiding Me

    So I was studying and I saw her. Made eye contact and smiled. Then she just sat down in front of me. But I was in the middle of an equation so I didn't look up right away. And when I did she was getting up and leaving. Then she sat somewhere else. I probably should have said something then but I got up a little while later and told her that she could have sat there. But she said something awkward about having to leave anyways.

    I just told her "Okay, I just felt kind of bad."
    And she said "Oh no, it was totally my fault. I shouldn't have... its my fault completely, I'm sorry." Or something along those lines but more awkward.

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    Default Re: I Think She's Avoiding Me

    You shouldn't have told her you felt bad. What you should have done was tease her a little bit.

    A sample response could have been, "Why did you move?! Do I smell or something? I took a shower today!" with a smile and lots of energy and playfulness.

    You have to establish a more dominant personality. Next time pull her books from her table and put it at your table and tell her that you insist she sits with you to keep you company.

    Be more sure of your actions, I bet that you probably responded to her in a monotone and non-flirtatious tone. In or to make a girl feel comfortable or less "awkward" you have to be comfortable and less "awkward."

    Remember : It's only awkward if you make it awkward.

    She could just have been a shy girl, don't be apologetic for you actions but be more assertive and playful. See the humor in each situation.

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    Default Re: I Think She's Avoiding Me

    keep seeing other women.better than worrying about reason for now.resist urge to push too hard


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