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Thread: How to know if a women wants to be approached?

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    Default How to know if a women wants to be approached?

    I know the right answer is stop being a pussy and approach whoever you want to talk to. But sometimes I find this very difficult. Still have to work a lot to build that confidence.

    Something happened few days ago. Me along with my 3 friends were at the airport. We were buying coffee and a girl came behind in the queue. I wanted to go to restroom, so I told my friend my order and excused myself. I came back to join my friends. One of my friend told me that girl was asking who you were? I was confused. I thought he was pulling my leg but he didn't say anything after that. I saw the girl sitting few seats away sipping her coffee and was not looking at me. I asked my friend what did you say? He said I told her your name and that you live here. She didn't ask anything else.

    I gave few more glances at her and not once she looked at me. I got up to throw my cup in the bin and turned around and saw the same girl coming over to throw her cup. We exchanged a glance and nothing else.

    I know this was nothing and probably my friend was just trying to get me to make a fool of myself. But how do you know if a girl wants you to approach her? I mean I have sometimes got stares and I had no idea how to react.

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    Default Re: How to know if a women wants to be approached?

    Okay, since you asked I'll tell you the secret that no PUA wants you to know...(joking of course)

    Every girl wants to be approached. Who doesn't like getting their day made by a handsome (in some cases marginally handsome) man?

    Sure some girls will be cold to you but it's a numbers game. If you wait for eye contact every time you'll miss a lot of chances.

    Assume Attraction On Her Part!

    Trust me, don't get into the habit of going home wishing you approached a girl.

    To quote Cody, "1% > 0%" meaning every if you're sure you're going to get blown out, by approaching there's still the possibility that you and her will click. But if you never approach there's a 0% chance because you never tried and already admitted defeat.
    Stop Thinking,Start Living!

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    Default Re: How to know if a women wants to be approached?

    I know the right answer is stop being a pussy and approach whoever you want to talk to.
    ding ding ding! we have a winning answer lol


    I gave few more glances at her and not once she looked at me. I got up to throw my cup in the bin and turned around and saw the same girl coming over to throw her cup. We exchanged a glance and nothing else.
    no your friends were being honest. girls will seldom show direct interest first, but they will show indirect interest.

    for instance, a girl might not approach you, but she may walk near you hoping that you'll talk to her.
    or
    a girl could ask a friend to introduce you to her.
    or
    she could mirror you. (like when she threw her coffee away because you threw yours away)

    you will seldom catch a girl glancing at you, because they are a lot better at keeping you from seeing them do it.

    odds are she was into you, and you should have approached her, even if she wasn't, you would have at least got some practice in.

    the best way to tell if a girl likes you is quite simple, just walk up and say "hi", if she's really into you she won't be able to hide her body language.

    man up and talk to any girl you want to whether they're interested or not. honestly, I have found that the worst rejections make for the best stories. so think of it this way, either you'll get a good conversation, or you'll meet an unfriendly girl who says something you'll be able to laugh about later.

    so in your own words

    stop being a pussy and approach whoever you want to talk to.
    lol


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