You know...lets face it...MOST MEN of today disgust me... I mean look at it... what have we become!? I just saw a TV Show where there is some guy helping girls...and IMO 8-9's FIND AND PICKUP GUYS!!!! He coaches them because THEY...not the MAN is taking the initiative! Has it really come to this where guys are so pathetic where WOMEN have to hit on MEN to get them or where they are the one that have to take the initiative for SIMPLE THINGS in a relationship!!!!?? Look at the mainstream TV shows...what do you have? Most have a over weight guy or a guy that is insecure with an attractive girl who are constantly dlv'ing themselves and the woman is the breadwinner. If this is not the case the guy is usually over possessive and almost stalkish. IMO the problem with most guys is that since around the feminist movement guys have been trained and programmed through what they have heard from females, from their mothers, and from the media of what a women wants. The problem is this is usually very incorrect information. We all know that girls say that all they want is a sensitive guy and one that understands, yet when we become this guy we get treated like Sh1t and not like a man anymore...more like a significant other. IMO girls want a MAN. They want a Breadwinner, a Provider, a Confident, Non-needy, Control of his emotions, Protector, Alpha Male!! This is what IMO I have found that every girl wants. It is in there genes to look for men with these characteristics. It all goes back to Mystery's talk about the "Caveman" theory and hardwired genetic traits to look for these things for a women to S & R. "Survive and Replicate". Now I have ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG with the feminist movement and believe that anything pretty much a guy can do a girl can do as well....I have 2 sisters with Master's Degree's to prove that, but the problem I have with it is I think it really has confused guys about what females want.
I mean come on...look at the roles today...a little different...no wonder why there are shows like Sex and the City and more girls are cheating on their AFC husbands/partners. Divorce rate is at an all time high...I wonder why? Bottom line is FEMALES WANT A MAN !! I have ran this by TONS of females vaguely describing my beliefs of whats wrong with the dating scene and "MOST GUYS", making fun of them and showing that I am NOT like the flocking masses, and basically just saying that guys are not taking responsibility in the relationship and are not being MEN and bottom line that's what a women wants and there a few guys out there like that IMO. This is field tested decently, if I run into a lesbian or bi-sexual I tell them a gambit that basically says lesbians or bi-sexual females I have found are usually upset or do not like guys because they are more alpha and dominant females. They usually agree with this and it makes them happy to think that they are better and stronger than other females. I then go on to say that their problem that it is hard for them to find a guy is the simple fact..MOST guys are not MEN...most guys do NOT take CONTROL, do NOT take initiative, and simply do NOT play their natural role in a relationship...even though there is NOTHING wrong with a female having alpha characteristics it is just harder for them to find a DOMINANT partner because most guys are not that dominant and that is usually why alpha females are usually not happy in relationships. I then go on to say that IMO there is NOTHING MORE that an Alpha female wants is a man to take charge, grab the back of their hair, slam them against the wall, and take control...be the MAN. *NOTE* This is just personal experience but EVERY SINGLE TIME they have FULLY AGREED with me that that was their problem. There are usually TONS and I mean TONS of ioi's! Licking Lips, Hair Flips, sticking the chest out, dilation of the pupils you name it ! Several time I have gotten laid pretty much RIGHT after me making that statement. They have told me that that is exactly what they want, and since you already have told them through that gambit that that is what YOU BELIEVE and that you are NOT LIKE THE AFC's and basically told them that you feel sorry for them, they then consider YOU to be the one that they are looking for. I don't know how many times, reguardless of kisses,sex, or anything that I have told a girl this gambit to only 2-3 months later talk to them and have them tell me. "I REALLY WISH I COULD FIND A REAL MAN...I WISH I COULD FIND SOMEBODY LIKE YOU" or "I WISH I COULD FIND SOMEONE THAT BELIEVE THE WAY YOU DO"
You see once you point it out to them they start to go on dates with AFC's and notice how the AFC's cannot make any decision and are uncomfortable and insecure and it separates you from the pack.
Note that I usually do this gambit during the attraction stage and usually end the gambit with this..."the problem I have is NOT finding a girl...the only problem I have is finding one that is attractive, smart, AND has a good personality, not some hot blonde bimbo that you can barely talk to. It usually goes good for a couple dates and then I get bored and move on..........pause... .....You DO have a good personality and like to have fun don't you!?" which is qualification.
They usually say "of course !!!" and then I just slightly smile and say in disbelief "Yea we'll see" ..this is great IMO because you state that you DO NOT have problems finding girls, which is pre-selection, you also hinted that the girls are HOT BLONDE BIMBO's, which IMO is GREAT because ALL GIRLS HATE THIS GIRL !!! even the dumb blonde bimbo's hate this girl lol, BUT that is NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU...you want all of that PLUS on that actually has a personality.... By doing this I have displayed pre-selection, pre-selection of HOT GIRLS that most guys would drool over, but I am not happy with that and usually get BORED because they have no personality. Girls will almost ALWAYS immediately HATE on this type of girl, which cracks me up because they feel so challenged because they know they were hot and stereotypically are what most men would love to have, but see that you are not like most guys and require more. They then, if they are into you which they usually will be, WILL MAKE IT A POINT to be overly fun and overdo their personality. It's actually usually sad and appears try hard, but wait...this isn't a problem...this is a good thing In like sin brotha's
Overall this shift in mentality that I am a MAN and that's what I am going to be in a relationship bottom line has not only helped me create what I want to be, but what women want as well.
Hope this helps some of you guys. Feedback is appreciated and I am always open to idea's.