So I noticed a common thread among young strapping guys looking for some action. One key thing to note you noobs need to remember is stop being such a dang Nice Guy! Let me use this one example. And don't worry I am culprit to this as well but recently broke out of this head space due to abundance mentality and totally did a paradigm shift of not only not revealing my feelings but also being more of a bad boy by communicating sexual interest/sexual intrigue off the bat. Granted it didn't work on the 7 in the Club the other night but like I said they usually feel unworthy as well as 8's since my 8 didn't bite so I disqualified her a minute ago. But the 9 I am gaming? She totally bought it! She was probably expecting the Nice Guy to come out right away with over texting the ever living snot out of her but I refrained from that and just let it slide. If she forgot about me she forgot about me. On a side note I have never met a hot girl that didn't sh!t test me by making all kinds of outlandish stories about being married, having BF's, fiances, moving, leaving, not being who I thought they were, forgetting me, leaving me for their Ex, etc. So I realize it now that it will come so now I just own it and try to put a positive spin on it as much as possible.
Never reveal your feelings right away
I notice a common thread among nice guys who become obsessed aka contract oneitis. They go stir crazy and text girls over much and then reveal their feelings before they have slept with the girl and say something like
Quote from POF forums
"So I take a chance, tell her how I feel about her, so then the usual, you're a nice guy, but not interested in you like that. Isn't that like saying, "You are a such a nice person, but find you ugly."
So granted this happens a lot and I see it on her quite often. So I used to do that take a chance and tell a girl I wanted a girl to be my GF or whatnot but not anymore. Because last night changed it all. Right of the bat with this new Dime Piece I knew she would be playing hard ball so I started out with the "Hey this might not be long term but I could really use someone to hookup with" Totally NOT Nice Guy but hey it helped my flow so much and not be needy by revealing my feelings with all that romantic nonsense. Got a text from the Dime today saying hello and sh!t testing the ever living crap out of me. I may be sunk but she is keeping me alive at the moment so I am still in hot water. Either way it will play out to my rules not hers. She knows that. Stop revealing your feelings to women and reveal how much you like them and want to bed them. This helps clear your head and get you in the right head space to be less needy and more fun. I predicted this would create more attraction and it did since I still haven't got the "You are a nice guy but...." I am still alive. So take a chance and take those risks. Without any risk is no reward. Playing it safe as a nice guy can still lead to rejection so spice it up a bit. Be a Nice Guy with a Bad Boy edge. That's me from now on and that's what the girls made me into. I never wanted to be this way but now they are becoming increasingly more attracted to my sexual side. It's basically like a verbal vomit to the girl when you reveal your feelings prematurely without being with her a while. It is romance overload and they just spit you out like you are the last thing on their mind. So be smart about it and do it right. May not be foolproof so use with caution. But be more edgy and girls will notice something different about you than a guy who puts them on a pedestal and never stops gushing emotional verbiage.