Re: Othello's 30 Day Challenge: College Edition
Day 16: Question. When to turn up the Heat?
I'm still doing pretty well. I am maintaining a strong core, the thought of reverting back to shy ways sickens me.
The thing is I feel as though I am being too situational and not transitioning well enough.
The thing is I have no problem talking the that girl behind me in line or making a funny comment to someone with loud headphones BUT I feel like I come off too friendly and I don't build attraction. I want to be number closing more to set up later meet ups.
My question is : After a situational opener, how soon do you guys transition into flirting and attraction building? And how do you go about it?
I feel as though I am coming off as more of a funny guy then a guy they want to cuddle with (keeping it PG for the kids out there).
I was thinking of just going, "I like your (insert personality trait here)" and telling them I want to talk to them again soon then.
I also want critiques/advice on Dining hall opening. I see the same 2-3 girls (separate from one another). Would pulling the "I see you everywhere" opener at their table do the trick?
I'm trying not to over complicate things here I just want to fix these weaknesses in my game. I need tips on how to not be seen in such as platonic light. I probably need to be more flirty sooner. I guess what I'm asking for is Flirt Tips. That sounds strange but I recognized a long time ago that I don't do it nearly enough.
Look forward to some helpful insight!
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