What is Rejection and Why I love it
Granted I just rejected this morning. Took her a week and a half, a week and a half to tell me she lives in another state. Gave me her number in a Club and told me she was breaking up with him. Then suddenly she is back with him and totally gone. Thanks for that one honey, thank you for totally leading me on as to which I have no idea how much of it is true. However she has a different area code so I partially believe her and I knew something was weird about this one. It took longer (normally 2-3 days) because I think she enjoyed hearing from me so I must be getting better at least since I am used to getting rejected way sooner.
Why I love it
I love it because it took me 100 girls to get 1 on a Date. So I realize I can F-close 1 out of 100. Seems bad since I am a super good looking guy but I don't care since unlike most guys I care more about validation from getting phone numbers than hooking up. However I am slowly moving towards getting a FWB scenario. I love it because I used my "stranger effect" and don't feel butthurt at all. Because I set the tone this wouldn't be long term and just looking for someone to hookup with.
What I must do
Either way I got to go through a lot more attempts and it's not even Summer yet so I got plenty more chances. This is after all only my 2nd rejection of the year. So I got 98 more to go before I find a girl who really likes me and wants to date me (ie hookup). In other words my goal is to increase this number (1% potential F-close) and get better overall at my texting game since in-field it is solid. It is just transitioning to C2 I am trying to overcome since it is a sticking point for me right now. Will update as it goes along.
When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.