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    Default What is Rejection and Why I love it

    Granted I just rejected this morning. Took her a week and a half, a week and a half to tell me she lives in another state. Gave me her number in a Club and told me she was breaking up with him. Then suddenly she is back with him and totally gone. Thanks for that one honey, thank you for totally leading me on as to which I have no idea how much of it is true. However she has a different area code so I partially believe her and I knew something was weird about this one. It took longer (normally 2-3 days) because I think she enjoyed hearing from me so I must be getting better at least since I am used to getting rejected way sooner.


    Why I love it
    I love it because it took me 100 girls to get 1 on a Date. So I realize I can F-close 1 out of 100. Seems bad since I am a super good looking guy but I don't care since unlike most guys I care more about validation from getting phone numbers than hooking up. However I am slowly moving towards getting a FWB scenario. I love it because I used my "stranger effect" and don't feel butthurt at all. Because I set the tone this wouldn't be long term and just looking for someone to hookup with.

    What I must do
    Either way I got to go through a lot more attempts and it's not even Summer yet so I got plenty more chances. This is after all only my 2nd rejection of the year. So I got 98 more to go before I find a girl who really likes me and wants to date me (ie hookup). In other words my goal is to increase this number (1% potential F-close) and get better overall at my texting game since in-field it is solid. It is just transitioning to C2 I am trying to overcome since it is a sticking point for me right now. Will update as it goes along.
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    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
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    Default Re: What is Rejection and Why I love it

    Nice observation. You're stays will improve as you continue. Rejection is a great way to learn what you need to improve. Keep at it!!
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    Default Re: What is Rejection and Why I love it

    Well ya know...I have come a long way. Started out last year afraid and lame. Now I am back in the Game but big time. Not like becoming a Guru "they live shallow lives sometimes". No my goal is not to become rockstar good it is just to become good. And really my in-field stuff is solid but I will keep trying out the techniques I haven't or stuff that needs to be fine tuned. So much!

    Bounces, moves, insta-dates, dhv's, Social Proof, Qualifiers, Warm Ups, Kino Escalation, Flash Game, Timebridges, Pivots, Time Distortion, Jealousy Plotlines, literally trying EVERYTHING I can this year. Last year was bunk was walking blind my first time around. Got so needy, so jealous, and so afraid. Now though I have hand picked my specialized venues and not walking blind literally got a gameplan. Only now it's game time. Last year was practice but it's almost time for the show to get started.

    Long story short...I am an anomaly. Basically think of Neo in the Matrix but me in the real world. People used to think I was a dancing savior and just starting to see it again. When I erupt literally the whole floor watches! They say "dance like no one is watching" but that is BS. In my head now I can hear them "Dance Jon Dance!" People screaming for me, saying weird things like "no way you can move like that" "this is your song" do I know you? DJ's whispering to other DJ's and pointing at me, girls gawking, guys staring and smiling, break dancers seeing poetry in motion, security shining their flashlights at me to make it more "dramatic", literally madness.

    So I nailed down...
    Dancing

    I then went into the sea of tattoos. Had artists of 10+ years amazed at my tatts. Screaming "that's awesome" when I was coming out. My artist posting about my Lion and Dragon tatt project next year how excited he is to have "big projects". Literally when you have tattoo artists in awe then something is going on.

    So I am nailing down tatts...
    Got promoted at work so nailing it down...
    Lastly nailing down Pick Up...
    This means I won't be traveling but I will be the best in my Club, the best in my Bar, the best by far jk. I suck bad. But my goal is to pull stunners like it's nothing but a thing cuz this is Don Jon the Man, The Legend. I am a Legend in my Town and I am going to rock this joint to the ground. Time to do some pick up. I'll be here all Summer. Check my FR's they are about to get heavy. Like uniquely no other Pick Up Artist heavy. I got my status in dancing for taking my own approach and with tatts. So the same with Pick Up going to take my own approach and rock it on down.

    Conclusion?
    Well you guessed it and you heard it here before but only 9's and 10's are going to rock my boat. I know sounds shallow right? But this is Don Jon talking. The Dancer! The one girls eye like a giant D cuz they see me move like lightning and I look like a movie star though I am just a human. I go to Walmart and couples just stand outside their cars standing there watching me like they seen a ghost cuz I know they ain't looking at my crappy car. It's gotta be the hair right? And yet I am imperfect. I walk through the Club and 6's and 7's bump into me and running away screaming no way cuz they can't believe I touched them like it was beyond belief! So yes the 9's and 10's not only expect my approach they challenge it. I mean I get hit on by 6's, 7's, 8's, constantly so why would I settle for something I could have flung at me at work or at the Club? This decked out 7 thought she could have me, so funny lol! I checked out her arse and strait up passed it up and she gave the look of lust HARD. Most guys would jump on it, most guys...but I am not like most guys. No the 6's-8's don't get my motor running. The 9's and 10's do. But I find it even more amazing that 9's have been eyeing me hard lately and even hitting on me too. Like 9's qualifying ME in the store? What is this the Meat Market? I just wanted to buy a shirt and I get drilled...argh not like that I said. On my terms only. So when I go out I welcome it but everywhere else I am kinda distant. Like the Gym, Store, Work, etc but in-field? Something happens I go Alpha mode and even though I was just Super Jay Beta to that clerk in the Meat Market but to the hot bartender? To the VIP Girls? To the Dime Pieces? To the Ice Cold Stunners? To the Stone Cold Foxes? I am Rico freaking suave, Don Jon, an Ice Cold Mack, John Doe the John I know, Killer Cat, Mr.Personality, etc. My reputation precedes me just saying this is just the beginning. My Stellar FR's to arrive this year but remember these words "I am not about the results, I am about the approach and the experience of a lifetime." Watch me and see it's just me against the tide.
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    Default Re: What is Rejection and Why I love it

    In my opinion a girl doesn't have to say "I don't like you" or "I don't want to date you" for it to be a rejection. If she is not following your lead or adding to the coversation and asking you questions(ie giving value in return)then you could view it as rejection. Have a goal of say 500 or 1000(could be more and it could be less) and see if you can get up to those. You will probably have some success along the way. I think the trick is to make it a game or contest. That way you won't take it personally and you will see it as part of the game. Your mind set will be "oh boy let's see how many times I can get rejected." If she likes you but you fail to pull the trigger you can count that too. This way you understand that you also(by not being assertive enough)play a part in the rejection.

    As was mentioned, the important thing is to learn from it. Say to yourself what did I do wrong and what could I have done better. Did I talk too much? Too little? You are constantly tweaking. I know it's cliche to say but it's not about the destination it's about the journey. The more you learn on your journey the better your destination will be.


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