Earlier tonight I was in the company of a group of people including a young woman who I thought I was interested in. I took inventory of my feelings afterwards and decided I'm not really interested in her for a few reasons(she is very attractive so her looks is not an issue at all; she's about an hb8or 9). I just don't feel she was paying much attention to me. She was polite and answering my questions but didn't ask me about myself at all. I know I did some very AFC stuff but nonetheless I don't think I'm going to pursue her as anything more than just a friend. I just realized she's not for me. It's as simple as that.
However, I did learn something from this. What I learned is I need to figure out how to get a woman to invest in me and our interaction. I've also learned not to get involved with group outings with a woman I might be or am interested in.
So my question to you guys is what things can I say(and what questions should I ask) to get a woman invested in the interaction? I don't necessarily believe she has to put in more than I do but it should at least be equal or close to it so how do I pull her in? Thanks.