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    RaginAsianC is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default What can I do to open a visitor to the office?

    I work at a financial firm and we have government auditors in this week and next week. Of the team of auditors, one of which is a fine sexy-looking chick. I have caught her staring in my direction when I am outside with my colleagues in the work-area while she is walking to the bathroom. Each time, she just bids her head down and smiles.

    The problem is: she is with two other colleagues(I am pretty sure both of them are higher up on the totem pole) and the three sit in the office adjacent to mine. I have no reason to go into theirs as they have no reason to come into mine or speak with my colleagues.

    I would love to open her somehow but it's a professional workplace for both of us so how can I work about this? They have been coming to work earlier than I and leaving later soooo... yeah, is it a lost cause?

    Anything I can say to break the ice or I can use to engage that team?

    Any tips would be great.

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    Default Re: What can I do to open a visitor to the office?

    Hey RaginAsianC,

    I may have some useful advice because I've dealt with a situation like this before, but I need some clarification on "she is with two other colleagues"... By the way, are they both guys, or all girls? What do you mean by this, is she farking them, or does she work along with them?

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    Default Re: What can I do to open a visitor to the office?

    It's not a lost cause if you are willing to lose your job. If you're willing to lose your job just get ballsy, go up to her, and ask her out. lol This is a very sketchy situation you could find yourself in. If you were to attempt this you should make it seem professional. Usually in this situation it takes the woman to make the first move. Because if a girl knows her worth she will know the guy isn't going to go tattle on her.

    I personally would just send non-verbal signals that show that you are definitely attracted to her. I.E. eye contact, be extra alert to things she says, offering to help her with things (whatever that means). If she is interested she will give you an opportunity to make a move (and she'll send her own non-verbal signals that she wants you to ask her out) without losing your job.

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    RaginAsianC is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: What can I do to open a visitor to the office?

    The other two colleagues are guys(age 30 and 55, I'm guessing).

    Since I am in the financial industry and she does audit, she should be good in accounting, would it be wise to string some convo about needing accounting help or just stay away from work?

    Either one, how can I transition into something quick, because it is highly unlikely she and I can have a lengthy convo.

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    Default Re: What can I do to open a visitor to the office?

    I rarely give advice that doesn't equate to making a move. However, from what you're saying it sounds as though you really have a very small window without blatantly hitting on her. How does your work environment look upon making moves on people in the work environment? Detailed description please.
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    Default Re: What can I do to open a visitor to the office?

    There are 4 ways you can play this:

    1/ Show up early for work before she arrives and wait fro her in the parking lot and then make conversation.

    2/ Stay late and make conversation in the parking lot

    3/ Go to the washroom area about the same time she does and strike up a conversation there

    4/ Ask her for her card as she is going in, introduce yourself as she is walking in or out of the area she's working. Then call her her up next week when she's not working at your workplace.

    From what you described those are probably your only options.

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    RaginAsianC is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: What can I do to open a visitor to the office?

    I work in Midtown so parking lot is out.

    The room she is in is left of mine and her path to the bathroom is left while men's room is right of my room.

    We have gone through the introductions as she came in with a compliance head on Monday. Like most PUA say, hold the hands differently and longer than most handshakes.

    There has not been 1-on-1 time yet.

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    Default Re: What can I do to open a visitor to the office?

    Listen RaginAsianC,

    I get the entire picture now. Thank you for the additional information, it makes it a lot easier for me to advise you here.

    Listen this, asking her questions about YOUR work is out of the question, that will make you appear desperate and lacking game... Try not to appear as if you don't know your work, she may think you are not suitable for the position, worse yet, she may talk about you to her colleagues and say that you're asking advice and if that goes to management, you're gonna look like a nitwit.

    Working environments are a bit technical to calibrate with women. They always have their guards up and then there's the thing about sexual harassment, so you have to be clever.

    Now here's some top PUA advice for you.....

    Be straight up!

    Go over to her, probably better if she's alone, if not, just go over to her and ask her for a minute of her time because you need to ask her something real quick..... Then tell her you need her number because there's something very important that you need to discuss with her, that's been on your mind for a little while now... but you can't talk to her about it on work... Tell her it's very important that you discuss same with her. (You have to sound and look very serious for this to work) Or just call her over to you desk and tell her....

    The point is to start the process... even if she turns you down with the number, don't feel too bad because it's going to play on her mind and eventually she'll want to find out what you had to tell her.

    Overall, you sound a bit timid (what Mystery calls Approach Anxiety).... so please build on your confidence before you do this because this is a very BOLD move.

    The thing is, "you only get one shot," so make it count!

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