Re: Need help with my comebacks
Well man don't have any examples for the given situation but I do struggle with this same thing as well. Basically when it comes to approaching females and even dealing with females I had falling outs with as well I noticed I never really do have solid comebacks.
The girls reactions shock the heck out of me so I am not really ready a lot of times for the curveballs they throw at me. I was dealing with this chick I had a falling out with not too long ago and I didn't expect her to like my opener since she was avoiding me for the longest time then I gave her a good opener "I saw you on FB and you were looking fine." "haha you're funny." she said which pretty much made my night but I should have been like "I know I am." and instead went into something else.
I miss key points like this all the time. For instance another broad from a store said to me "So...." she was hitting on me since I was buying a shirt and not even trying to run anything on her. So I talked about my job and my promotion in a very boring way but still got her closed on FB. I should have played with it and said "Soo... yes I guess that's a hint for something?"
Anyway I have really good comebacks for re-appraoches cuz I eject and then re-approach after a hard rejection with a good comeback. But I noticed in the moment I am rarely witty and often times want to be funny but end up looking like a douche who is trying too hard.
Either way I like Julien RSD says "Act like everything you say is the sh!t" because for one half the time I act like what I am saying is not approved or boring and it ends up being boring or dumb. But when I am in state acting like what I am saying is the sh!t (without trying) due to a positive Mindset I am killing it and making them have fun along with myself. I guess it doesn't matter anymore as far as if they approve but just to be aware of this and act like what I say is the sh!t (know it and not fake it) and then it should all balance out. Regardless the comebacks come when I am acting cool and not needy.
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