i gave her a ride home, my will, she said not to but i said i wanted to. when we got there, apparently her mom was home (without her knowing she should have been there) and that meant i couldnt go inside cuz blablabla... then called her right after i dropped her off and called her, she picked up right away and i called her for dinner tomorrow and she said sure..
now im thinking where to take her and how to k-close her.. f-close i dont see a chance, she is way to hard in that point of view.
Last edited by SleekB; 01-30-2010 at 01:53 PM.
okay, ignore what i wrote, she flaked on me. she made an excuse that she goes to the pub with her girls and asked if we can hangout on monday after class. i told her im gonna study at a very nice place at a beach (at 2pm) so she is welcome to join.. she hasnt replied yet
btw. i got 2 weeks left before she goes away for a vacation (during the olympics) if nothing happens til then.. i can forget about her
Stop thinking about f-closing her. Just vibe with her. Have fun. Kino escalate. ENJOY ffs. The good stuff I saw you did was the bank robbery routine and flirting with another girl. DO THAT MORE OFTEN. Dude, your HB10 is not the last girl of the world. Have her SEE that you can attract other women, and that she's LUCKY to have you interested in her. Even if it's not true. Fake it 'til you make it. You're on a good track.
Tip of the day: Go out to a pub with her. Have fun. Escalate like a maniac. F-close her in your car/a hotel/in an alley/in a mcdonald's bathroom stall.
today i came to class and told myself "im not sitting next to her!", i sat on the other side of the room and waited for a different girl to come to class.. she came but sat at the end of the row next to her friend (which means no seats next to her from any side ) then i saw my buddy coming in but he went to the other side of the room (next to the HB10)
so i totally forgot what i told myself and went and sat next to her.. i sat down and didnt even look at her or said hey or anything (it was during lecture so you know..) but i did expect her to say hey.. but she didnt either.
btw. keep in mind that yesterday, 2 hours after i called (she didnt pick up), then texted her she texted me "lets go study after class" and i ignored it cuz i was like wtf.
anyways, after class i asked her "so what did u get on the exam?"
her: "i dont wanna tell you"
me: "oh so we have secrets now? "
her: "what did you get?"
me: "nahh i dont want to embarrass you"
her: "hhh okay.. did you do good?"
and we kept and talking shit like that..
we walk out of class, i know she expects me to follow her and go study with her and then she will wait for me to offer her a ride home, DIDNT HAPPEN! i just said, my buddy is waiting for me to go to the gym, wanna join? she said "no" i said "okay then see you", her: "bye" and left..
i felt like it was such a big shutdown that i actually legit felt bad about it for like 10 min but i really didnt care after and picked up more #s :b
just tell me, except me sitting next to her and showing to much neediness and weakness, why the hell from accepting to go out with me it turns out that we didnt go out anywhere.. like the idea just disappeared, i felt like she really doesnt want to go out with me and shes just being nice.. what make her play so hard to get? im teasing, im cocky (controlling myself yeah), she said yes every time but why i feel like shes using me for tutoring her even though i offer it (welll not anymore but you get my point right..?!)
im over her, but still feel bad in general about my failure.
ps. vel-day is coming up.. should i do anything with this chick?
Dude, remmember that she s one of many... If you treat her as something special you re likely to loose her.
You re on pedestal, don t think of her too much, and game some other girls to keep your mood going. That s what I do. You don't need to f-close them, just tease... and other girls will see this - including her. Get her jealous.
Also, don't feel bad about your failure. This thing is trial and error. She's just some girl.
YES. V-Day is coming. And she's single. Women HATE being alone on Valentine's. You can do a last-stand kind of thing and game her some more and then tell her something like that you're going to get drinks with friends on V-Day and that she should come. If she agrees tell her you'll pick her up early so you can grab a bite together.
I'm just sayin'.
do you think i should maybe buy a flower (after all its val-day you know.. normally i'd never do that shit) and im not thinking about her too much, and im not even thinking about f-close with her right now.. all i want is even a tiny kiss from her to show ioi to me so that i know its still on.
i was thinking, buy her a flower and put it by her house, (with some symbol that she knows only i draw all the time) and she will know its from me.
btw. she is leaving for 2 weeks vacation right the next day after val-day so this is where it gets tricky for me