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  1. #31
    bonsai Guest

    Default Re: hb10 flaked on me :( why?

    Personally I don't do flowers with girls who are not in a LTR with me. Even then, I rarely get any. My advice would be against it, but then again I don't know the girl. If she's the corny type she'll like it.

    Tell her something like "I want a cute and smart girl to spend V-day with." *3 seconds of eye contact in silence, smile.* "...do you know any?"
    She'll think you're asking her out at first, but the follow up should get a laugh. Do what you need to do to get her on V-Day, I have a feeling that after her vacations your chances will be very much smaller if you don't.

  2. #32
    TheresNothingToIt Guest

    Default Re: hb10 flaked on me :( why?

    Quote Originally Posted by SleekB View Post
    how would you explain this:
    i killed it at one point by saying "give me a hug" she said no.. then i did it again (yeah i know.. im dumb) so i thought.. thats it, game over. but no. she texted me right after say "im still hurt from what happened (some guy threaten to kill her at a bar when she rejected him), i like you but i dont know"

    i was like.. hmm.. ok.. "that's okay, we can take it as slow as you wish" (something like that.. cant remember exactly)
    she never said anything back.. then she didnt come to class today and texted me "will you teach me on friday?" i never replied.. to show her that im busy and have other Sh1t to do other than texting.. how do i f-close her for f-sakes!!??
    Ok. Well so far it seems things are going pretty good for you. She has rejected another guy (she says, and give her the benefit of the doubt) and is still texting you.

    She texted you asking if you'll teach her on Friday. This is good news! Here's how you close with her. She's admitted liking you, and has a lot on her mind now. This is where you play the good guy and show her she can trust you and feel safe with you. You don't need to do anything extreme on Friday and you can get a kiss. Here's what I would do in a situation like this:

    Instead of ignoring her now reply with a short answer setting up a time for her to come over (or meet up with you somewhere) for whatever you have to teach her. Keeping it short will also show that you're kind of busy (or make her question it in which you can reply you're a little busy doing whatever right now you'll talk to her later) and wait it off for a while before you talk to her. Now... Do NOT text her later like you said you would... Give her a call! It's much easier to tell someones interest in actually meeting up by the sound of their voice. Stop relying on texting so much to keep things good between the two of you! Texting is good, talking is better. I personally hate talking on the phone and always text people. However, if there's someone I'm interested in or trying to set something up with, I'll use the phone for what it was originally made for and listen to her voice.

    Once you two are hanging out go through the day, teach her whatever she asks, and in between start little small talk here and there. Keep good eye contact and always smile when she is caught in eye contact with you. Let her see you're happy around her and comfortable with her. Talk softly and sweet to her and at the same time give her the sense of safety from being hurt when she's around you. Do not act like Billy Bad-Ass and pretend to be the Punisher or something like that and that you'll be her guardian angel. Just give her that sense that her feelings and her emotions can be trusted with you. Once she feels like you'll make all the bad go away she'll be smiling and complimenting how sweet you are all night.

    Note: Creating contact with her will show comfortability that you feel with her. This works well when you're talking about other things off lesson topic that brings her feelings into play.

    For your final act in this part of your play you will get your closure you're looking for. Avoid mentioning anything about kissing, asking, etc. These are the very basic rules. You will get your hug and prior to the hug look her in the eyes with a smile, wrap your arms around her gently and during the hug you can give her a kiss on the cheek. This will let her know where you stand and either be able to lead into a second kiss, this time on the lips, or keep her guessing. This has worked for me. It's cute, no need to always be "sexy" cute is good for a lot of starters.

    If you only kiss her cheek and it doesn't lead into a second kiss (and don't force it either,) don't text her. Tell her to get home safely (unless you're dropping her off) and maybe let you know she makes it home ok. The vast majority of girls I have been with who were driving off at the end of the night have thought it was real cute that I wanted to know they made it home safely. They were texting smiley faces until they fell asleep that night.

    Hope this helps you and best of luck to you and this girl.

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    Default Re: hb10 flaked on me :( why?

    Quote Originally Posted by TheresNothingToIt View Post
    Ok. Well so far it seems things are going pretty good for you. She has rejected another guy (she says, and give her the benefit of the doubt) and is still texting you.

    She texted you asking if you'll teach her on Friday. This is good news! Here's how you close with her. She's admitted liking you, and has a lot on her mind now. This is where you play the good guy and show her she can trust you and feel safe with you. You don't need to do anything extreme on Friday and you can get a kiss. Here's what I would do in a situation like this:

    Instead of ignoring her now reply with a short answer setting up a time for her to come over (or meet up with you somewhere) for whatever you have to teach her. Keeping it short will also show that you're kind of busy (or make her question it in which you can reply you're a little busy doing whatever right now you'll talk to her later) and wait it off for a while before you talk to her. Now... Do NOT text her later like you said you would... Give her a call! It's much easier to tell someones interest in actually meeting up by the sound of their voice. Stop relying on texting so much to keep things good between the two of you! Texting is good, talking is better. I personally hate talking on the phone and always text people. However, if there's someone I'm interested in or trying to set something up with, I'll use the phone for what it was originally made for and listen to her voice.

    Once you two are hanging out go through the day, teach her whatever she asks, and in between start little small talk here and there. Keep good eye contact and always smile when she is caught in eye contact with you. Let her see you're happy around her and comfortable with her. Talk softly and sweet to her and at the same time give her the sense of safety from being hurt when she's around you. Do not act like Billy Bad-Ass and pretend to be the Punisher or something like that and that you'll be her guardian angel. Just give her that sense that her feelings and her emotions can be trusted with you. Once she feels like you'll make all the bad go away she'll be smiling and complimenting how sweet you are all night.

    Note: Creating contact with her will show comfortability that you feel with her. This works well when you're talking about other things off lesson topic that brings her feelings into play.

    For your final act in this part of your play you will get your closure you're looking for. Avoid mentioning anything about kissing, asking, etc. These are the very basic rules. You will get your hug and prior to the hug look her in the eyes with a smile, wrap your arms around her gently and during the hug you can give her a kiss on the cheek. This will let her know where you stand and either be able to lead into a second kiss, this time on the lips, or keep her guessing. This has worked for me. It's cute, no need to always be "sexy" cute is good for a lot of starters.

    If you only kiss her cheek and it doesn't lead into a second kiss (and don't force it either,) don't text her. Tell her to get home safely (unless you're dropping her off) and maybe let you know she makes it home ok. The vast majority of girls I have been with who were driving off at the end of the night have thought it was real cute that I wanted to know they made it home safely. They were texting smiley faces until they fell asleep that night.

    Hope this helps you and best of luck to you and this girl.
    hh to bad i didnt read this a week ago because now, she is gone for a vacation for 2 weeks.
    last class i set on the other side of the class and all my buddies were like "hey man she is alone over there.. why dont u sit there?" and i said "if she want me to sit there she will let me know, i dont want to sit next to her every class and think oh why cant i get shit from her"
    so now she is gone for 2 weeks which means its like 95% game over for me.
    that week before she left, she didnt show much interest as at the beginning and i already found a different girl to set my mind off that one. but i still want her bad.
    val-day is tomorrow, and she isnt here so i have to chill with some other chick but i really wished it was her for this day at least..
    i guess i will start fresh when she comes back or something..

  4. #34
    TheresNothingToIt Guest

    Default Re: hb10 flaked on me :( why?

    Quote Originally Posted by SleekB View Post
    hh to bad i didnt read this a week ago because now, she is gone for a vacation for 2 weeks.
    last class i set on the other side of the class and all my buddies were like "hey man she is alone over there.. why dont u sit there?" and i said "if she want me to sit there she will let me know, i dont want to sit next to her every class and think oh why cant i get Sh1t from her"
    so now she is gone for 2 weeks which means its like 95% game over for me.
    that week before she left, she didnt show much interest as at the beginning and i already found a different girl to set my mind off that one. but i still want her bad.
    val-day is tomorrow, and she isnt here so i have to chill with some other chick but i really wished it was her for this day at least..
    i guess i will start fresh when she comes back or something..
    Think of this as a good thing that she's gone. For two reasons:
    1. It gives you time to practice. Practice by opening up to other attractive girls who you may not be interested in (this way they're ONLY practice and no risk).

    2. Acknowledge that she's been gone for a while by simply approaching her with a "hey you! I haven't seen you around lately" unless she told you she'd be gone in which you say something along those lines but without making it seem like she didn't tell you she'd be gone. Something like "hey you, it's been a while! How was your vacation?" and move on from there. It will open conversation.

    While she's gone -- Bill posted something in his article section about making yourself interesting. This would be a GREAT time to apply this. Read up on a few things, or see some movies, get out and have a good time. This way you have a story to tell when she gets back and it shows you know how to have a good time. This will possibly spark her interest in going out with you some time.

  5. #35
    braddeltone Guest

    Default Re: hb10 flaked on me :( why?

    great steps sleekb
    I would say meet, teach and listen.
    listen to what she has to say, watch her. find her hot buttons.
    then you'll find the next move.
    best,

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    Default Re: hb10 flaked on me :( why?

    okay so she is back now from vacation, looking fly! i didnt sit next to her, i was with my buddy chilling in the back of the class. i think she saw me but not sure. i text her "I'll need your notes :b" (cuz i completely didnt pay any attention in class)
    she texted back "hhh what would you do if i didnt take notes :b"
    so i said something that im proud of "lol I would then have to ask a different girl :b help me finish the assignment due wed?"
    her: "hhh i was joking, you know i always take notes.. im suck a nerd :b and yeah sure"

    i feel like this is my opportunity to fix things up and start fresh again with her.
    im just nerves to lose it again.. she is tan after the vacation, hair looks amazing.. im so down!

    so we're studying together tomorrow (and we've done it before the vacation if you remember me talking about it in previous posts) how do i attract her more and make her want me.. my plan is to Push-Pull a lot if i know how but i need more advices

  7. #37
    AznBoy515 Guest

    Default Re: hb10 flaked on me :( why?

    well im not expert, im a begginer like you, but since u mention something about her being tanner and better looking hair, so over all more sexier, you should do something make her think your different also, like get some new shirts, shoes, haircut etc. remember this is game, we get better everyday, fashion evolves, im not saying you have to go out get the newest shirt, just get new cloths, hell i go marshall and shop, each shirt is like 10-15 bucks and girls still complement how they like my new shirt etc. make your self stand out there, just remmeber, new, neat, and clean

  8. #38
    Datemastertips Guest

    Default Re: hb10 flaked on me :( why?

    Whoa... this is definitely news to me I'm researching more on this as well.
    i just may have found the solution...

  9. #39
    BadMedicine Guest

    Default Re: hb10 flaked on me :( why?

    she's sh*t testing you and you're failing left and right. you're trying to hard and seem needy. I liek the cocky/funny bank robbery but you're going to have to make her qualify in something other than words. Skip class next time and call her (or text, even better) right before class. tell her your friends are stealing you to go surfing/ roadtrip to another city/state, paragliding, sky diving, something fun and tell her a good wifey would jot you atleast 3 pages of notes in outline form and email/ fax them to ya. Tell her you wish you knew some of the smart girls in class because their notes are surely like study guides but you've just got her so try not and disapoint daddy, and if I don't pass this class/degree *I'LL* be at home with the kids and *you* can be full time."

    ..you might only get some sloppy notes out of it and she'll want to hand deliver them and then you can make the time and place and seem unavailable. "The buddies drug me out for pool and I cant get away, you can stop by at ______" (if you're with friends) or whatever. you gotta stop chasing this chick because you're blowing it. you have a decent repoir with her but the pattern shows her lessenign interests. Less is more. gl.

  10. #40
    one87 Guest

    Default Re: hb10 flaked on me :( why?

    Hello!

    I've just signed up here for you.
    Why? Because someone has to tell you, that you are acting like a whimp.
    Who are you leading? Nobody...
    "Blablabla you can join me if you want to". This is so no-alpha!!!!

    Read your posts, learn, learn learn, read your post again and find EVERY little mistake and there are so many...

    Until that please do yourself a favour and forget her!
    I really mean it. At least for a few months. Just don't write her back. If you writes you tell her you don't have time.. Everytime!
    After that never write again, instead call her!

    Greetings from far away...
    one87

    Ps. stop acting like a whimp. you are not beta, you are gamma! sorry

    Edit: Forget the shit others tell you to do! You need to find your own way and your own style
    Last edited by one87; 08-05-2010 at 03:05 PM. Reason: important notice..


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