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Thread: Tips for talking to Introverted Women

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    Default Tips for talking to Introverted Women

    One sticking point I have is introverted women. I like their quiet nature and can get them talking but sometimes there is a lull that is unlike a regular old silence between conversation topics. This little picture has alot of solid things to keep in mind. As far as pickup, what works is not looking for validation... Not trying to find a common ground forcibly... Just being comfortable with silence. Just letting them be comfortable around you. Commenting on things you observe in your surroundings and rolling that off into other topics helps alot imho.

    Now please realize this is a special case... You typically need a bit of time together to know whether she is truly an introvert. PUA rules still apply to every woman you meet... Just the application differs.

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    Default Re: Tips for talking to Introverted Women

    Hi,

    Just try and make them feel comfortable.

    You can't make them talk, it's not in their nature.

    Ask them questions and make it easy for them to talk about themselves.

    Joe

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    Default Re: Tips for talking to Introverted Women

    I completely agree LockDown. I have always been a very upbeat type of guy with a lot of energy. I met this one HB9 and we stayed friends for years, never hooked up though. One day we were both single and I tried to pursue it but she is the epitome of an introvert, unless shes drunk haha. I found the thing that worked BEST out of anything was just sticking to my upbeat, alpha attitude. While she responded with one word answers at times the more and more I teased her and didn't let her introversion affect me helped her open up wether she realized it or not

    There will always be lull points with introverts but my point is don't let them see that it effects you, or it will just make it worse. Just stick to being upbeat and happy and they will come around eventually

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    Default Re: Tips for talking to Introverted Women

    My advice would be to try to open them up. Find a topic that she finds fun, something very engaging. Everyone has something they are passionate about. They need to feel comfortable as hatem10 says.

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    Default Re: Tips for talking to Introverted Women

    Emotionally challenging questions are best on everyone. Once people are comfortable with you knowing you wont hurt them or scare them i'd suggest challenging them with interesting soul searching kind of questions... Like "if you were on an island and you could have any kind of drug what would that be?" The tone of the questions should be catered to the individual but i find its been useful to getting to know a bunch of co-workers fast who are very busy and dont have time to wait for a conversation. Just my 2 cents
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