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Thread: Did I screw up? Am I getting friend zone?

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    Default Did I screw up? Am I getting friend zone?

    I met"jane" monday on the gym, i approach her just to make small talk no intentions on getting number, at the end of conversation she asks for my name I tell her and she tells me hers. Next day she says hi to me first, i approach make small talk ask for her number, and she tells me its nothing personal but we just met and she can't give it out. The next day I asked her to get a drink after working out but she tells me she is too busy,today I teased her about how busy she is she doenst have 15 minutes to herself, and ask her when can we hang out, she says she will let me know. When she was leaving I told her that I just want to get to know her, but I won't ask her again because i dont want to bother her. She says she is not bother and smiles. How can I improve my game, should i just move on and forget about her, i dont want to be a friend. PS she is always the first to starts conversation and she always says bye to me when she is leaving.

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    Default Re: Did I screw up? Am I getting friend zone?

    You didn't screw up, but you didn't run a strong game on her. When you say "small talk" it sounds like just Fluff talk and questions. That is not attractive. To make a girl attracted to you, you need to flirt/tease and speak to her in the language of emotion and be fluent in it. Remember, seduction starts at "hello."

    The problem is your intentions were muddled. You need to be honest with your attentions right off the bat. You could've closed the first time. If your intentions are muddled, well she responded in kind with uncertainty. Basically, she is sub-communicating to you that she is not sold...yet.

    When you told her "You want to get to know her" that is being honest with your intentions, but that should've been articulated way earlier. When you approach a woman the first time, you should already know what you want. Knowing what you want and exhibiting the confidence and taking the initiative to go for it is attractive in itself.

    From my personal experience you still got a shot at this, but your attraction game needs to be good enough. A girl once said a similar excuse to me "I don't want to give my number out yet," the next time I saw her and ran sick game and then said "You should give me your number" her response was "I agree. Take it down."

    Just remember small talk is as bad as no talk. Unless you are some high status public figure, you need to stand out.

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    Default Re: Did I screw up? Am I getting friend zone?

    I would say just don't talk to.her a fee times when she is there. Look distracted or busy. If she tries to get your attention (like she walks right up to you and syas hi), entertain her without being cold but talk about how you're busy later and in a rush to get done.

    Then next time you see her, chat her up BUT use some routines and Kino KINO KINO. You have to be a little unpredictable as far as your topics of conversation.

    And I agree with IM Mortal... You really need a goal. Want do you want her for? If you just want to have sex, then qualify for that. If you want a date, then go for the number etc. Being focused helps immensely.
    Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship.
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    Default Re: Did I screw up? Am I getting friend zone?

    The first time I approached her she was a HB7 to me, I just wanted to get more practice on approaching women and improve, the following days she was dressed differently and with a different hairstyle, she looks like HB9, so that was the day I asked for her number, but you guys are right I should approach every woman with the intention to get her number


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