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Thread: How do I stop this pathetic crap?

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    Default How do I stop this pathetic crap?

    It happened again. I didn't approach a woman I wanted to approach and I left her feeling angry as hell. Like a failure, a loser and a pussy and very very pissed of.

    Weird thing is I can approach every girl inside a bar because i've learnt to push myself quite well in that situation. Just walking up to random girls I haven't even checked out or whatever. But for some reason when it comes to girls I actually really feel something for just by looking at her, and oftentimes if I feel that she might be very open to an approach, catch some good eye contact and whatnot.. for some reason i'm actually more hesitant to approach those girls. farking stupid. Might have something to do with being scared of success I guess. But fark, man.

    This has happened many times now and the feeling that stays with me afterwards is just the feeling of a pathetic loser and every time I swear to never let that happen again. That the next time that situation comes up I am going to remember that feeling I had the last time I decided to "bail" on it and that will make me do the approach. But for some reason I never remember to think like that.

    Have you any nice response to give, please do. Just got back home and really feel like I missed out a perfect opportunity.

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    Default Re: How do I stop this pathetic crap?

    My generic answer would be "dont beat yourself up, there are plenty of fish in the sea"...

    But really, maybe you are placing unrealistic expectations on yourself. Maybe your expectations exceed your level of skill, or maybe you're getting ahead of yourself and subconsciously focussing on scenarios, responses, and outcomes with the women before you even get their first names.

    Maybe you need to slow your roll, start with "hello" and be 100% present during each approach. Maybe you need to start with easier approaches?

    How old are you, where do you prefer to meet women and which kind of girls are you trying to attract?

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    Default Re: How do I stop this pathetic crap?

    when i met my ex i took the time to approach her, when i finally did she had to go.all i said was hi.i went and later got introduced to this sexy swedish girl who was the assistant of my friend.if she liked you she will get over it so you do same brah.

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    Default Re: How do I stop this pathetic crap?

    Your problem is with these girls you want to approach and can't, you get in your head and get attached to the outcome. You said you like them and could have a good approach, and thats your problem. With the bars, its higher energy, alcohol and you say you dont even check out the girls sometimes.

    You gotta learn to detach yourself image from the outcome of an interaction. That means you should be approaching every girl you see. Try the 3 second. You see a girl, approach her within three seconds. This gets you movin before you have time to get in your head and talk yourself out of it

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    Default Re: How do I stop this pathetic crap?

    Don't think about what she might be thinking,leave that to her,just make a good approach,even if she's thinking that you're a beta AFC,once you approach and tell her that you wanted to meet her,she will insta-change her mind about you.


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