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    Question Is she inviting me over for friendship or more? Way to Test?

    There is a girl I met through a mutual friend and have briefly talked to many times over the years. We always get along when we see eachother but havent thought much of it.
    Lately we've been talking on Facebook because we both have puppies and have talked about our experience with them. She invited me over for a puppy play date and we have done that a few times.
    In the past I always got a slight sense that she was interested in me, but couldn't tell.
    When we hang out sometimes she looks into my eyes longer than people normally do, but it's hard to tell if she is interested in more than friendship.
    She is also into fashion and modeling and that somewhat intimidates me, as she is a tall attractive woman (with many options I assume). But shes been inviting me over regularly, like once a week.
    We mainly just talk and sit on the couch (its an L shaped couch so we are kind of on TWO separate couches, not next to each other) for a few hours. She seems to enjoy my company but not so much that I can tell.
    Its always me who says I need to to leave after a few hours as I dont want her to have to kick me out.

    I am going to see her again tomorrow but would like some way of trying to figure out if there is a possibility for more than friendship. I read in a Roosh V. book to move their hair (as if its in the way of their face) and gauge their reaction. Nervous about that though, as it would seem unprovoked.

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    Would like a way of doing this without coming off as I am trying to get with her. The reason is her close friend (male) is also a close friend with a girl I have been casually dating for a week and a half. Meaning that it would be very likely that the male would tell to the girl I am currently dating that I recently tried kissing a friend of his (the dog date girl) but she turned me down. Then I would sound like an idiot to the girl I am already dating. Kind of a Seinfeld type situation, really.
    I dont think the two girls know eachother, its just a random coincidence they are close friends with the same guy. And i dont care if the first girl hears i kissed the dog girl (that would help me, if anything), but i dont want her to hear that I failed.

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    Default Re: Is she inviting me over for friendship or more? Way to Test?

    hey bro love you are going out and trying to figure out what works -

    most PUAs tell you to look for IOIs aka Indications of Intrest but don't worry about any of that, some girls dont even show any. you shouldn't be worrying about if she likes you or not you should be getting her to confess her deepest darkest secrets because when she does that she will trust you enough (if you dont judge her) to sleep with her.

    remember she is just a girl and she has imperfects just like you and I. dont put her on the pedestal.

    need any more questions feel free to PM me

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    Default Re: Is she inviting me over for friendship or more? Way to Test?

    You fail only if you don't try anything. Be touchy because women love that.

    If you want a surefire way to know whether or not you're wasting your time, kiss her. High risk = high reward.
    Always leave her better than you found her.

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    Default Re: Is she inviting me over for friendship or more? Way to Test?

    Try this... when you sit down to talk on the couch, let her sit first, then sit beside her. Watch her reactions... if she looks shocked in a "wtf" way or, instantly leans back and stays that way, IOD. If she shuffles an inch away, dont look too into it, could be she has her personal bubble. Doesnt mean you can't lightly Kino though (brushing her arm, leg, etc). Keyword light until she reciprocates.
    It's not a task, its a pleasure. Enjoyment reached from strengthening the foundation, not a new coat of paint.

    Oh, and getting laid is pretty farking awesome too!

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    Default Re: Is she inviting me over for friendship or more? Way to Test?

    ioi's are only important for calibrating to comfort or flirt. You need to get her emotionally conditioned to want you around. So to do that keep being cool, keep teasing her and do things no other guy in her life has done or said to her. Be different but be yourself. Most importantly enjoy your time and make it interesting for you... If you cant have fun then whats the point of gaming a chick?
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Is she inviting me over for friendship or more? Way to Test?

    Look for ioi's.

    If The Vibe is right, sit right next to her & show her pics on your phone.
    If she doesn't move & is into the pics, just look her straight in the eye & kiss her.
    A girl that doesn't 100% know you isn't going to invite you to her place or go to your place without the chance of you 2 hooking up.

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    Default Re: Is she inviting me over for friendship or more? Way to Test?

    Next time you see her and it’s an organized meet up observe how much effort she has gone to. Even though she is into fashion, did she do her hair nice? Is she wearing make up? Is she wearing a reasonably attractive outfit? Perfume? If a girl is interested she will usually always make an effort of some kind to look her best.

    A more direct approach would be to ask her out on a proper date outside of the dogs. You could raise this casually by having a conversation about favourite foods ‘Oh you like thai too? Why don’t we check out that restaurant nearby?’. Again, observe how much effort she goes to on the date.

    You could also playfully gauge her interest in you ‘Who’s cuter, my dog or me?’. Judge her reaction which will likely be playful, teasing or possibly embarrassing and use whatever she says to demonstrate higher value ‘yes but I am the master’.

    I also like Kyl3's idea of getting her close using the phone.


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