I am fairly new at PUA and trying to approach as many girls I can. I don't really like using a pickup line, therefor I currently use the "enthousiastic HEY! What's going on?"-type of thing. My main purpose is: I want to get to know the girl.
5 girls are standing in group at the festival, I ask my friend to open the group. I'd hop in and target the HB9.
How it went: my friend was starting to act a bit drunk, opened the group... got rejected after 10 seconds by the group.
Yet, I still wanted to have a talk with the HB9, so I went up to her.
ME: "HEY! what's going on?"
SHE: "I don't want to talk."
......(I kinda freeze)......
ME: "So... where do you come from?"
SHE: (deadsilent and gives me the "I don't care eyeroll")
ME: (wander off.... lol)
I think I should've acted more confident instead of freezing out. And looked her right in the eyes and smile. Then after 20 seconds of "not talking", ask her "enlight me, what's the fun in not talking? Because I just experienced some very awkward 20 seconds "
In my introduction I mentioned my main goal: I want to get to know the girl. The thing is, I find girls reacting like this 100% more attractive than the ones that are super enthousiastic when I approach them. And all I know about them is they're super hard-to-get.
1. How can I get better at these kind of situations?
2. Is there any trainingmaterial which could help me on this (besides approaching more/gaining more in field experience)?