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    You probably heard of the saying ďIím an artist and a loverĒ and other sayings based on Bohemian ideals. Itís kind of a misnomer because the harsh reality is upon closer inspection it is two different worlds. Itís fine to love art. Itís fine to love women Ė hell their bodies are a work of art themselves. But to have the prowess to get a woman to love you is a different ďartĒ in itself that takes you out of the other art. That is because the art of seduction is a science. Similar to acting, it is a science of the human condition.

    The woman who is readily attracted to you that you donít have to work to game and you are attracted to her is the ultimate muse. Based on assortment theory, people who have the same values/interests/beliefs/outlook in life are automatically attracted to each other without even verbally expressing those commonalities.

    If your goal is to get your muse to inspire your work, first you have to find a girl worthy of being a muse. She needs to in some form be attracted/love you, not just your art (none of this Phantom of the Opera crap - although it's my favorite musical). In fact, you shouldn't even need to game her, you shouldn't even have to feel you need to be exciting to keep her. All you have to do is be the "best of yourself" with true confidence. That girl when you find her is THE MUSE. For me, it took me 41 years to find something this damn close and worthy. When I did, she inspired me to create "The Polombian Muse," (6x9 pencil) http://i402.photobucket.com/albums/p...ps674b3ed7.jpg and I gave it to her for her BDay.

    When I was young, I use to be idealistic in my 20s. But now I am older Iím more pragmatic. Itís hard enough to get good at what already works. Be good at that first before trying to re-invent the wheel.

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    Default Re: Artist and his Muse

    Great work!!! I tend to do more Digital Art work although I have a traditional background.

    --But I totally understand what you're saying through out all of the detailed responses. I greatly appreciate it. As for the flow of the conversations and time spent with her--I believe it's accurate to still say 75% no work or worries in our time being shared. When she did get bored I was able to recover those conversations. Even though you gave me some advice about ho to address her vulnerability, I'm just wondering if it'll be enough to help me try to address it with her. Do you think only time will tell?

    I guess I should also explain that I've yet to ever ask she be nude any of the art so far. I think that's wayyy down the road if it ever happens.

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    For her being comfortable in front of you posing...Yes, it will take time. As for how long? It depends on the woman. You don't know what the source of her hangups is. I advise you to find out before bringing her back. She is going to have trust you and feel comfortable around you, then it is a matter of constant exposure. For example, for people with anxiety approach, if they keep on practicing initiating dialogue, they eventually will get use to it.

    If she is shy, then find out why. Chances are that just might be it.

    Your girl uses pillows to cover herself up. My girl's coping mechanism is laughter. She is shy about her body and cameras make her nervous. She can't keep a straight face in front of a camera. The actress Scarlett Johansson also has this same problem as a model until this very day. She breaks out into a laughter.


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