So as you might be able to guess from the above, I'm an artist. Recently ran into this chick, obviously my type but never let on that i was interested. We first met in the lift--got her number and invite via phone so that was way before I got an actual conversation with her at the party and even hung out with her friends. Said my good byes a few hours later.
Didn't hit her up till a week later in regards to maybe some business between friends. I got there early, she was late and felt rushed but also got mixed up on the location as there are 3 businesses with the same name in this city. My fault for the bad info, so I rewarded her determination and good faith by buying her drinks and snacks for her kid. Meeting was fine, lots of generalizations summed up about both of our lives. I knew I wanted to see more of her outside of business so I worked my way towards asking her to model for me in conversation. I pointed out that she surrounds herself with artists type of people, but has never been apart of it--and I was down to help expose that to her. She was flattered--excited about it.
Yesterday, I hit her up to get her opinion about something artistically, I tried to phrase my negg as playful--it worked and got an emotional response but my follow up probably didn't do so well. Here's how it went...
Me: Man. These flowers are crazy. Thanks for the homework--could have picked a simple flower you know
Her: Lol! I'm glad they're fitting
Me: Now I'm just trying to figure out how I'd fit a garden into a sculpture hah. Sounds absurd. Hope sunday isn't going to be a curve ball lol. I'll make this work.
Since then I've let some space grow apart. through out all of these interactions I haven't really negged her besides maybe this artistic challenge. I started reading up on the PUA Forums and finding what videos I can about all of this method of attracting women. One thing I know I missed out on is really reaffirming Push and Pull, negging and Kino. I'm in an odd situation in regards to maybe working with her on a business level but it's ok, I'll live. I know that I'm dancing a fine line. I guess a few important things to note is that she is a single mother, under the age of 25 and I'm not sure as much as it doesn't matter that she's single, 25 and with a kid. I want to make her feel attracted to me.
Any input would be beneficial--I'll be meeting with her in a few days in my Art Studio. I guess another thing is--she'll be my model, but I'd much rather have her be my muse.