Hey guys I have always had a problem. One of the reasons that have kept me from getting what I want is the process of obtaining it talking or saying things. Some men can talk all the way to sex or a kiss, and to be honest that is my weakest point. Instead I try to give compliments or pay attention to little details, or even give small gifts.
Are there specific ways to proyect what I want verbally? are there any books that can help?
Sometimes, after a date or something, I just realize that I could have done more to attain what i wanted, and the things I should have said began to appear in my mind, but it is already too late!..It just sucks :S..I think to overthink a lot, and end up doing nothing.
Thanks in advice.