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    Question Approaching Acquaintances?

    Lets get started by saying that i have no problem with approaching women I don't know and I think that I'm not too bad at it, but where I really have trouble is asking out girls that I already know. I always get lost in conversation or don't know how to approach them as anything more than a friend, my normal approach of going up to a girl and introducing myself doesn't work because they already know who I am, so what I'd like to know are some tips for approaching an acquaintance in a sexual way and/or how to stop the conversation going into the same boring things we always talk about like school and work. All answers are appreciated.

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    Default Re: Approaching Acquaintances?

    hey dude good questions -

    why not start with instead of your trademark move of "hey, my name is ___" to your acquaintance (and your right i could see how that doesnt work is to say "hey, how have you been" or "hey, hows your tuesday" since you probably like to keep it simple

    keeping things interesting and not boring conversation for her is get her to talk about how awesome she is, "what do you enjoy doing in [insert your city]?" and follow up with "oh cool, what do you like about that?" and keep the conversation on her because everyones favorite subject is themselves. am i right ?

    feel free to use that as much as you would like, any other questions feel free to PM me and we can talk more about this.

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    Default Re: Approaching Acquaintances?

    Do some harmless flirting first to gauge whether she is interested or not. Then simply ask her out on a date. You could keep it somewhat casual 'hey lets go for a quick drink after work' or I've had some success by initially just complimenting a girl 'I like the jewelled hairclip you're wearing today' and see how she responds.

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    Default Re: Approaching Acquaintances?

    I think with aquantences you can move things in two different fashions--the direct aproach and just ask her out or the interesting ninja way--which is treat every encounter like shes already a girl you're dating, get her more emotionally invested into you and get more IOIs and when shes having a lot of fun just kiss her (you still have to prep with light kink obviously). The goal is to make it seem like it kind of just happened--don't spell it out for her that you like her. Give her mixed signals that lead her to not only enjoy your time together but to keep her on her toes. Think of it like you both were jogging.. You saw her first, jogged next to her and now you're speeding up to phsyically show her you want her to race--and the winner (which is both of you) gets a kiss.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Approaching Acquaintances?

    talk less, have her talk more

    while she is talking figure out where the place to have sex with her to handle your logistics
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    Default Re: Approaching Acquaintances?

    Quote Originally Posted by blu3blu3111 View Post
    Lets get started by saying that i have no problem with approaching women I don't know and I think that I'm not too bad at it, but where I really have trouble is asking out girls that I already know. I always get lost in conversation or don't know how to approach them as anything more than a friend, my normal approach of going up to a girl and introducing myself doesn't work because they already know who I am, so what I'd like to know are some tips for approaching an acquaintance in a sexual way and/or how to stop the conversation going into the same boring things we always talk about like school and work. All answers are appreciated.
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    Default Re: Approaching Acquaintances?

    It's always going to feel odd because a frame has already been established. I'd take a step back from the friends and keep gaming stranger until you've really internalized all the changes in your life. That way the frame can be changed more easily.
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