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    Default Talking about being hurt

    This is something I've been thinking about before, so I wanted a few more professional opinions on this.

    So sometimes in convos with a girl, past relationships can come up. I was wondering if it would be beneficial in anyway to mention that you were seeing a girl at some point in time that you cared about and she hurt you somehow (whether the story is true or not don't matter here, it's just the concept I'm wondering about).

    On one hand, I think talking about that shows you can be committed, shows you make yourself vulnerable, plus you've been with girls in the past.

    On another, I think it could come off as kind of like you're complaining like you're another one of her friends.

    I don't know. What do you guys think about this concept? If something isn't clear about what I'm talking about, lemme know

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    Default Re: Talking about being hurt

    Yes you can talk about being hurt in the past and past relationships. It's all apart of being vulnerable. When you are truly vulnerable, you build connections that are deep and meaningful. Connections like this last.

    You can't do in a whiney way though. You need to talk about what happened. Talk about how it made you feel, and why you did the things you did, and what you learned from it and how it's made you a better person today. That's how you do it.

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