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Thread: What to say to a girl

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    Default What to say to a girl

    To seduce a woman, you need to know what women want and the whole process of seducing a woman is to give a woman what she wants. A woman is attracted to behaviors in a man, in comparison with that a man is attracted to beauty in a woman. A woman wants a confident man, a charming man, a man who voluntarily makes all the moves which are necessary to seduce a woman. A woman, how matter how attractive she is, she is still a female human, and she is not that much different from a common female except that she is sexually attractive. When you converse with a woman, you need to show that you are confident, you need to make her feel attractive(at later stage you also need to make her feel horny to make love with her). When you are confident, you don't fear the girl, you are not intimidated by her, you believe that you are attractive and desirable, therefore you don't have to impress her, you can pretty much say whatever you want to say, however, you also need to make her feel attractive, you want her to feel good about herself, so when what you want to say may make her feel less attractive or feel bad about herself, you should have the wisdom not to say it. Seduction is not about say what you want to say, it is about getting what you want by saying what women want to hear. it is not to give vent to your suppressed feelings which will make her feel less attractive or feel bad about herself, if you do that, you may temporarily feel good, but you will not get what you want.

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    Default Re: What to say to a girl

    When you say something, you need to adopt the matching body language, including your facial expression, your voice, how you stand, etc., to make what you say become effective. If your body language don't match what you say with your mouth, what you say will become ineffective therefore meaningless.

    A woman will talk more as she becomes more comfortable with you, and also the more she talks, the more she will feel comfortable with you, therefore when you converse with a woman,you have to let a woman talk more, to let her talk more than you talk. There are several ways to do it: 1. You volunteer to talk about yourself to help her open up. 2. You relax and feel comfortable so she will feel comfortable by your comfort, therefore she will be inclined to talk more. 3. You ask her open-ended questions.

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    Default Re: What to say to a girl

    Ideally a conversation should flow naturally by two people's participation. However, if you really don't know what to say sometimes, below are guidelines. Because you want her to feel attractive and you want her to know that you are interested in her, so you should talk about her as much as possible. So you can talk about:
    1. Her interests. You can let her talk about how she is feeling when she does what she is interested in, why is she interested, how did she develop that interest.
    2.Her good memories(her past experiences), like her childhood, what she did when she was a child in her hometown
    3. Beliefs/opinions. If she expresses an opinion, you can dig on it, you can ask why she has that opinion, how she developed that opinion.
    4.Intimate stuff like sex. When you talk about it, you should be serious and candid, you can smile, but don't laugh, don't feel uncomfortable.
    5. Compliment her

    When you say some opinions which are different from hers, it is OK to say them out as long as it doesn't make her feel less attractive or bad about herself, you don't have to agree with her on everything to get her, and she also wants to hear your candid opinions, she wants you to be real, and you don't have to argue with her and should not argue with her especially it is on a sensitive matter.

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    Default Re: What to say to a girl

    So, when you converse with her, you want her to feel attractive, you want her to feel good about herself, but never do it at the expense of yourself, you should never let her feel attractive and feel good by sacrificing your own attractiveness.

    When you discover her attractive points, never forget to dig them, you should let her talk more about her attractive points, to make her feel good.

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    Default Re: What to say to a girl

    So generally speaking, when you talk to a woman, you show that you are confident(therefore attractive) and you are interested in her(To let her feel attractive, to flirt with her, be flirtatious, to make her feel good).

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    Default Re: What to say to a girl

    You talk about what you are interested in, right? You talk about politics, because you are interested in politics; you talk about psychology, because you are interested in psychology; you talk about socialization, because you are interested in socialization; you talk about historical figures, because you are interested in historical figures; you talk about body language, because you are interested in body language; you talk about current affairs, because you are interested in current affairs; you talk about books, because you are interested in reading books; you talk about your understanding of life, because you are interested in your own understanding of life;

    When you talk with a woman, what should you talk about? When you approach her directly, you have already expressed your interest in her, you talk with her just because you are interested in her, right? Otherwise you won't talk to her, right? So naturally, when you talk with a woman, you should talk about her. We talk about what we are interested in, since we are interested in the woman, so we naturally should talk about her. Isn't it right?

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    Default Re: What to say to a girl

    What she volunteers is obviously what she is interested in. So dig on what she volunteers.

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    Default Re: What to say to a girl

    You should have stopped after #1 now you have just gone off a tangent. But yes I 100% agree with the OP's original post. I couldn't have said it better myself. Just today I had some faith renewed. I know I have preached on here a long time not to mix business and pleasure I still believe it but not as much. Why? Because I met a girl at work. No no not Oneitis lol never like that told you guys I never get Oneitis anymore. No I am just saying I met a girl who restored my faith in meeting at work just like I met a girl at a store who renewed my faith in stores.

    But this girl at work I watch her regularly. So she stares at me quite a bit, catch her star gazing many a time, catch her giving me looks, catch her playing with her hair near me, catch her giving off the normal signs a woman wants a man's attention.

    Anyway off to the races. I also watch how she acts towards other men, not the same. She doesn't treat them like she does treat me. She'll be checking me out when she is in a meeting for goodness sakes just staring like I am a romance tv show or something. So anyway she just sits there talking to another young guy and I get nothing. No readings of attraction, flirting, nothing. Then I walk over she raises her hand so I sat down cuz it was a big issue turns out.

    So we are sitting there today and I instantly feel this "shift" like she is almost playing with me. She won't look me dead in the eye and give me that sweet innocent careless look she gave the last guy. She seems aloof like she is nervous or something and afraid to give a strait look when I am dying for her to look me square in the eye. She did like once in the whole 30 min I was there and it felt like we were going at it or something. So I talked her through it and it played out a lot like how you said. She was on a roller coaster with me I could tell. I caught her eyes getting distracted and scoping my tatt that was inner lol. So I saw her once the entire time look at away distracted. Like I was capturing her attention somehow but she was also distant staring strait ahead listening and engaging very carefully and cautiously.

    But for instance she was with that younger guy and I just seen her staring off at me in the distance totally distracted by me talking to him. So that doesn't happen when I go over she is entirely involved but also engaged. So it seems that way for me with many women. So it seems I have to be the one with something to say cuz they are waiting for me to show up.

    Not saying anything just that there is a certain art of flirting and that is all this was. I could tell she was flirting cuz she gets all emotional when I come around and she seems like a soaring eagle when I am not around but when I am around she is like a dove. It's like what girls do I am starting to notice as I collect more field tested data. And yes I don't have to bag every girl to become a better PUA. A new HB8 came to work I really liked but she went to another dept and got snatched up by a leech (those disgusting natural gamers who leech on and follow them everywhere). You know the "lurkers" or White Knights. Hate those dang White Knights. Anyways that other new girl is already knocked up by the White Knight who was in her training class and never went away from her for 2 seconds for me to hit on her. She's already knocked up 2-3 months later! Geez these guys act quick and I feel like a dang snail getting laid at the speed of a slug. Sucks bad but I also have standards and turn a lot of lays down.

    Holy heck I just realized something. I can be a slug just like them! Next time lol like Tyler Durden says "Be a dark slug to get laid" I will just White Knight this chick at work. Hey it worked for the other dude. So next time she is in the break room boom I will be "that " leech. I hate those dang leeches but I am afraid I must become one to figure out what these guys are doing that I am not. And it's not just what you say but what you do. I am going to approach this chick and latch on like a heinous annoying leech that has always peeved me in the past. Thought they were the most annoying things but hey maybe being in Set 2-5 min ISN'T going to cut it anymore? Maybe I need to stick through the sticky stuff and get in it for the long haul? That's what I'll do for now. Slug my way to chick's pants.
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    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
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