Re: What to say to a girl
You should have stopped after #1 now you have just gone off a tangent. But yes I 100% agree with the OP's original post. I couldn't have said it better myself. Just today I had some faith renewed. I know I have preached on here a long time not to mix business and pleasure I still believe it but not as much. Why? Because I met a girl at work. No no not Oneitis lol never like that told you guys I never get Oneitis anymore. No I am just saying I met a girl who restored my faith in meeting at work just like I met a girl at a store who renewed my faith in stores.
But this girl at work I watch her regularly. So she stares at me quite a bit, catch her star gazing many a time, catch her giving me looks, catch her playing with her hair near me, catch her giving off the normal signs a woman wants a man's attention.
Anyway off to the races. I also watch how she acts towards other men, not the same. She doesn't treat them like she does treat me. She'll be checking me out when she is in a meeting for goodness sakes just staring like I am a romance tv show or something. So anyway she just sits there talking to another young guy and I get nothing. No readings of attraction, flirting, nothing. Then I walk over she raises her hand so I sat down cuz it was a big issue turns out.
So we are sitting there today and I instantly feel this "shift" like she is almost playing with me. She won't look me dead in the eye and give me that sweet innocent careless look she gave the last guy. She seems aloof like she is nervous or something and afraid to give a strait look when I am dying for her to look me square in the eye. She did like once in the whole 30 min I was there and it felt like we were going at it or something. So I talked her through it and it played out a lot like how you said. She was on a roller coaster with me I could tell. I caught her eyes getting distracted and scoping my tatt that was inner lol. So I saw her once the entire time look at away distracted. Like I was capturing her attention somehow but she was also distant staring strait ahead listening and engaging very carefully and cautiously.
But for instance she was with that younger guy and I just seen her staring off at me in the distance totally distracted by me talking to him. So that doesn't happen when I go over she is entirely involved but also engaged. So it seems that way for me with many women. So it seems I have to be the one with something to say cuz they are waiting for me to show up.
Not saying anything just that there is a certain art of flirting and that is all this was. I could tell she was flirting cuz she gets all emotional when I come around and she seems like a soaring eagle when I am not around but when I am around she is like a dove. It's like what girls do I am starting to notice as I collect more field tested data. And yes I don't have to bag every girl to become a better PUA. A new HB8 came to work I really liked but she went to another dept and got snatched up by a leech (those disgusting natural gamers who leech on and follow them everywhere). You know the "lurkers" or White Knights. Hate those dang White Knights. Anyways that other new girl is already knocked up by the White Knight who was in her training class and never went away from her for 2 seconds for me to hit on her. She's already knocked up 2-3 months later! Geez these guys act quick and I feel like a dang snail getting laid at the speed of a slug. Sucks bad but I also have standards and turn a lot of lays down.
Holy heck I just realized something. I can be a slug just like them! Next time lol like Tyler Durden says "Be a dark slug to get laid" I will just White Knight this chick at work. Hey it worked for the other dude. So next time she is in the break room boom I will be "that " leech. I hate those dang leeches but I am afraid I must become one to figure out what these guys are doing that I am not. And it's not just what you say but what you do. I am going to approach this chick and latch on like a heinous annoying leech that has always peeved me in the past. Thought they were the most annoying things but hey maybe being in Set 2-5 min ISN'T going to cut it anymore? Maybe I need to stick through the sticky stuff and get in it for the long haul? That's what I'll do for now. Slug my way to chick's pants.
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