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    Default how to approach a woman

    how to approach a woman? Be direct.
    You don't need an excuse to approach her, you just need a reason to approach her, and that reason is that you find her attractive and you would like to meet her. You don't have to let her look at you first before you approach her. Once you see her and find her attractive and you desire her, then you should decide to approach her. How to approach her?
    1.You don't want to scare her. So you walk directly towards her in a slightly slower than normal speed, you look at her, smile, you let her see that you are coming towards her, so she can prepare herself for your approach, therefore you won't scare her.

    2. Get her full attention before you speak to her. You know what you're going to tell her is very important so you need her full attention to listen to it.
    If you already arrive in front her, and she doesn't notice you or she pretends not to notice you,you should make a polite gesture or say "Hi, excuse me" to stop what she is doing and have her full attention,so she will look at you, wondering what you are going to say. Eye contact is established.

    3. When you say her, you state your reason to approach her. When you say it, you should look at her eyes, smile, friendly. You should mean what you say, and say what you mean. Don't laugh. When you see her eyes, your facial expression should convey that you are really attracted to her therefore you can't help go up to approach her.

    4. After that, you can introduce your name and extend your hand to shake her hand. If she is hesitate to extend her hand, you can just hold your hand in the air, look at her expectantly, smile, be friendly, believe me, it will give her huge pressure and she will give in and shake your hand.

    5. Then you can talk to her, and you can flirt with her, be flirtatious, be bold, be direct, be charming.

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    Default Re: how to approach a woman

    One of the best posts I've seen here. Just a question is it a good idea to approach a women from behind and if so should I run in front of her like Sasha or something else. If I walk slowly I might miss the opportunity to meet her.

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    Default Re: how to approach a woman

    Quote Originally Posted by Jae102 View Post
    One of the best posts I've seen here. Just a question is it a good idea to approach a women from behind and if so should I run in front of her like Sasha or something else. If I walk slowly I might miss the opportunity to meet her.
    It is not a good idea to approach a woman from behind because it will scare/startle her.
    You can ask her to stop as if she dropped her wallet, and after she turns back, you can tell her that you find her attractive and you would like to meet her. You need to be honest and confident, don't be sneaky, don't be as if you are hiding something.

    Or you can walk in front of her, and of course you have to walk fast to run before her, as you already pass her, you need to slow down and turn towards her, then you have to stop her, with a polite stop gesture, or say "Hi, excuse me" to stop her to have her full attention before you speak to her. You need to act what you will tell her is serious and very important, don't laugh. Be friendly, smile.

    When you talk to her, you need to stand straight, don't lean in. Don't be ashamed of your desire for her, don't be ashamed of your attempt to meet her, believe me, she will appreciate your action as long as you approach her correctly.

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    Default Re: how to approach a woman

    There is no perfect moment or way to approaching. I have approached from the side, behind, front, back, just about every angle. In fact the awkwardness of approaching is what makes it so exciting since you always have to calibrate according to the 3 second rule. Following the 3 second rule you may have to run after her or go strait at her and match up like the final hour.

    Girls want you to approach with intention and to be sure of yourself and of course have something to say. If you are feeling good and approaching confidently your body language will be great but if you are insecure and needy your body language will be wack and she will since it and get creeped the fark out. So the more you focus on body language the more you will fark it up since you need to focus on the convo, social dynamics, and calibration of each Set.

    It's kinda like okay you see a chick walking, standing, sitting, talking, etc so you have to act fast to get at her. Whether she is in a group or not. I usually don't do mixed sets with guys to avoid competition. In these arenas you are doing something so random it is easy to get knocked off your game but at the same time it creates a high chance of creating a magical moment since you are taking huge risks engaging at full speed ahead. That's why the awkwardness can lead to worse things happening or incredible things happening in short periods of time cuz you are living so boss. But if you fraction it out to only approaching from a certain angle or body language your calibration will be screwed up and you will be very formal which bores the heck out of a potential set. So go commando and worry about handling the Set not trying to control your reaction to it.
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    Default Re: how to approach a woman

    You need.
    1.) confidence
    2.) a set of balls
    3.) a desire to want to sleep with her in the future
    4.) congruence. If you're not cocky funny, & you're not the shit, don't try to be the shit. If you're a genuine good guy, be that.
    5.) tell her why your talking to her. That's it.

    That's all you will ever need to approach a girl.

    The best direct approach ever?

    Kyle: hey
    Girl: hey?
    Kyle: (make small talk on whatever she's doing for like less than 3 seconds)
    Girl: yeah I'm grocery shopping for my room-mate. (Whatever she said. It's an example)
    ----Kyle: Ahhh that's cool. I Just saw you from over there and thought you were cute so I honestly wanted to come meet you. I just wonder if you have more going for you other than that great smile. Got any crazy super powers? (Sly smile will work wonders here)


    It can seriously be that easy guys.^
    I've actually done that same exact direct approach before.


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