Re: how to approach a woman
There is no perfect moment or way to approaching. I have approached from the side, behind, front, back, just about every angle. In fact the awkwardness of approaching is what makes it so exciting since you always have to calibrate according to the 3 second rule. Following the 3 second rule you may have to run after her or go strait at her and match up like the final hour.
Girls want you to approach with intention and to be sure of yourself and of course have something to say. If you are feeling good and approaching confidently your body language will be great but if you are insecure and needy your body language will be wack and she will since it and get creeped the fark out. So the more you focus on body language the more you will fark it up since you need to focus on the convo, social dynamics, and calibration of each Set.
It's kinda like okay you see a chick walking, standing, sitting, talking, etc so you have to act fast to get at her. Whether she is in a group or not. I usually don't do mixed sets with guys to avoid competition. In these arenas you are doing something so random it is easy to get knocked off your game but at the same time it creates a high chance of creating a magical moment since you are taking huge risks engaging at full speed ahead. That's why the awkwardness can lead to worse things happening or incredible things happening in short periods of time cuz you are living so boss. But if you fraction it out to only approaching from a certain angle or body language your calibration will be screwed up and you will be very formal which bores the heck out of a potential set. So go commando and worry about handling the Set not trying to control your reaction to it.
When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.