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    Default Calling a girl out on her shit without being reactive

    Hey guys!

    I don't know how thin the border between calling her out on her shit and being reactive is. Where is it? Can someone provide examples?

    Because I don't want that girls can "push me around" but I don't want to be a reactive p*ussy either.

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    Default Re: Calling a girl out on her shit without being reactive

    If you have high enough value in this girl's eyes you can do or say almost whatever you want and get away with it. Just don't be insulting to her and you're golden. Also you can't be afraid to walk away. It's kinda like dealing with flaky girls. If a girl flakes then she is probably not just flaking on you, she flakes on everyone. You have to decide if you want that kind of person in your life. Call her out on her shit but let her know you are not affected by "her shit" and you won't seem like a p*ussy. Hope this helps

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    Default Re: Calling a girl out on her shit without being reactive

    So, telling her, that it is not ok/nice etc. or you don't accept/like that behaviour without being angry is the way to go?

    Last time I called a girl out on something she was really and honestly apologetic that she "forgot" about the meet up we had set up.

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    Default Re: Calling a girl out on her shit without being reactive

    What is it exactly that she is doing that you don't like? This will help me give you more specific advice.

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    Default Re: Calling a girl out on her shit without being reactive

    The thing I called her out on was when she suggested that meet up with a friend of her and her. (Did mention that in another thread I think).

    That's it. I just needed the general definition because I couldn't wrap my mind around the difference between them.

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    Default Re: Calling a girl out on her shit without being reactive

    There is a video by Arash Dibazar called "don't put women on a pedestal" on u tube. check it out. ...It should help

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    Default Re: Calling a girl out on her shit without being reactive

    I turn it into a joke and move on. For example

    Me: "Are you able to join me for some epic shenanigans on Friday at 5:30? Meet me at ________ "
    Her: "Sure! Actually, you should buy me dinner" (before we've had sex)
    Me: "Haha ya right, Princess Brattpants. Get one of your 'nice guy' friends to buy you things. Yes or no about ______ "
    Her: "OMG that's the worst nickname I've ever had!! XD But alright, I'll see you there"


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