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    Default gaze and stare

    When you stare at a girl, she will wonder why you stare at her, because you are expressionless; when you gaze at her, she knows that you are interested in her, she will react to your interest in her. You don't want to stare at her, you just need to gaze at her if you are interested in her.

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    Default Re: gaze and stare

    Good tip thanks. I'll take your word for it.

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    Default Re: gaze and stare

    what the difference between staring and gazing...? :/

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    Default Re: gaze and stare

    Try to explain it in my way but I could be wrong. When you gaze you show emotion. You can mimic their level of emotions. So when she tells you a story and with every high point whether it's funny then you'd laugh just as she would or when she smiles then you smile too. She smiles as it makes her happy so you do the same to show her that you 'get her'. This is all done whilst holding eye contact. Nice way of building rapport.The way I do it is I actually listen to the story. If you focus on the gaze then your mind is too busy calculating your moves instead of paying attention.

    A stare involves only the eyes. A gaze involves the eyes and your facial muscles.

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    Default Re: gaze and stare

    A stare is CREEPY where a gaze is inviting Grey2Fox has it right ..... its all about the facial expressions

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    Default Re: gaze and stare

    I would also add what to look for in her eyes when you gaze at her. If her eyes go up, it means she feels superior to you. If they go side to side, she is looking to escape the situation, but if they go down, indicating she feels nervous/inferior, that is usually the green light that you should go over there.

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    Default Re: gaze and stare

    thanks ALOT make a lot of sense now

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    Default Re: gaze and stare

    Thanks a lot Jack, it really is effective, I usually do it with a bit of a smile.
    Guys, I have a question for the lot of ya. Do you put any variations on this, and what kind of effects have you noticed?
    For example, do you glance down at her body and back up after establishing a good 1 sec gaze to let her know you're checking her out?
    Or do you ever make a funny face (i.e. thinking face with hand on chin) at the end of a good sensual 5 sec gaze to be spontaneous and show you're funny?
    Do you guys wink , and at the end or beginning?

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    Default Re: gaze and stare

    I think this really have to depend on which phase of your interaction with that girl.

    Are you talking about gazing a girl at the beginnning or in conversation or while seduce her to bed?

    That's very difference eye contact you need at each of these phase

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    Default Re: gaze and stare

    Gazing should have the arousal element in it.
    But as I see it, the girl will gaze you first if there is some hope for you to gaze.
    Remember the saying "who's the customer here?!?"


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