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    Default Some quick tips on opening

    I don't claim to be saying anything that hasn't been said before, but nevertheless, a couple tips on opening. And here I'm just talking about bars, which is pretty much my favorite place to meet girls.

    I'm naturally more of a laid back guy who doesn't find it easy to open. Many of you are too. All you have to do is realize it and adjust. You have to find whatever it is that breaks down your barrier. For me, it just have to get some social interaction in and get the juices flowing. How do I do that? It's silly, but I high five people. Anyone. I do it until my social brain is awake and ready to interact with people. Once that's done, my secret is simple. I talk to everyone. Male, female, mixed sets, everyone. And I don't approach it as an "opener," I just approach it as meeting people.

    In fact one thing I'll often say, to guys or girls, is simply, "I haven't met you yet, have I? Hi." It's that simple. I do that until I'm talking to people and I know a lot of people.

    I can't tell you how many times that has led me to meet a guy who knows a girl who, voila, ended up being interested in me.

    The other tip is also simple but always bears repeating. It doesn't matter what you say. Just say something. Sometimes the dumbest stuff I've said has worked. Because the words don't matter. Just pick something and go. Direct, situational, whatever. Just get the interaction started. You do it enough, you'll succeed on some of them without even doing anything "right." Because the only truly "right" thing to do is to just do something.

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    Default Re: Some quick tips on opening

    Thanks for this advice. I love the concept of doing something in order to raise up your mood. And when you are in a good mood, you are pretty open to everyone and everything. I'm having a hard time dealing with the aa, even tho it's stupid because when i somehow managed to talk to a girl, I always make them laught and have a good vibe.

    I will try this!
    (sorry for bad english, France here)

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    Default Re: Some quick tips on opening

    Quote Originally Posted by mossyben89 View Post
    I don't claim to be saying anything that hasn't been said before, but nevertheless, a couple tips on opening. And here I'm just talking about bars, which is pretty much my favorite place to meet girls.

    I'm naturally more of a laid back guy who doesn't find it easy to open. Many of you are too. All you have to do is realize it and adjust. You have to find whatever it is that breaks down your barrier. For me, it just have to get some social interaction in and get the juices flowing. How do I do that? It's silly, but I high five people. Anyone. I do it until my social brain is awake and ready to interact with people. Once that's done, my secret is simple. I talk to everyone. Male, female, mixed sets, everyone. And I don't approach it as an "opener," I just approach it as meeting people.

    In fact one thing I'll often say, to guys or girls, is simply, "I haven't met you yet, have I? Hi." It's that simple. I do that until I'm talking to people and I know a lot of people.

    I can't tell you how many times that has led me to meet a guy who knows a girl who, voila, ended up being interested in me.

    The other tip is also simple but always bears repeating. It doesn't matter what you say. Just say something. Sometimes the dumbest stuff I've said has worked. Because the words don't matter. Just pick something and go. Direct, situational, whatever. Just get the interaction started. You do it enough, you'll succeed on some of them without even doing anything "right." Because the only truly "right" thing to do is to just do something.
    I'm not sure. How I never came up with this before.

    I can do this without giving my name unless they ask to gauge imterest.

    My first time here and its already paying off.

    Thx


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