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    Default General attraction model

    I was wondering if somebody can give me the gist of all the phases of the universal attraction model(open, transition, etc.), what I want to learn is just what is supposed to happen at all these phases. This is to help me learn the different systems developed by the gurus or whatever other standard there are more easily. A link to an article or to another thread on the forum would suffice I don't want ppl to spend their time writing what's probably already been explained many times in these site or on others. Thx.

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    Default Re: General attraction model

    there are several attraction models out there... mystery's got one, psych's got one and Sinn's got one... they all work depending on what you're trying to do... although mystery's attraction model is pretty script based. psych's model is a little bit of a balancing scale between rapport and escalation. sinn's model is a bit like russian roulette but instead of death you go all the way back to comfort if i remember correctly.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: General attraction model

    In Order:
    Introduction
    Attraction
    rapport
    Seduction
    Relationship Balance

    The Tao Of Badass actually does a great job of outlining & explaining each of these steps/phases.


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    Default Re: General attraction model

    I've been studying the basic layouts of all the different methods out there and seeing what similarities and differences they have when it comes to the different stages of the courtship period. Now I'm starting to get a sense of the basics behind them all, thx for the replies they have been helpful.

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    Default Re: General attraction model

    they're all about the same in my opinion. how can they be? well thats because each girl is different meaning you have to adapt to what the girl is doing. you can't ignore her signs and body language.

    as for how they really are all the same--they all some how balance between rapport and breaking rapport. too much rapport = friend zone. breaking rapport = flirt / player. this is something all in common with all models. most guys don't have a problem with building rapport--instead they often build too much of it and get stuck in LJBF land. i think the smartest thing to do is to switch back and forth when she's given you lots to go on. i also think for some girls--a nice attraction side kick is to introduce a nick name early on based on something you found out or something out of observation. reason for this is that it helps you establish some rapport where you stand out from all of her friends who just call her by her name. in some ways you're establishing a boyfriend bond already--especially if you don't call her this in front of other people. going to test it today again and see if it really comes to benefit me
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    Default Re: General attraction model

    Thx Artandale, definitely got me thinking. But the whole breaking rapport baffles me, I'm good at establishing but what would be some effective way to break rapport coz it always seems counterintuitive?

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    Default Re: General attraction model

    breaking rapport is simply flirting. because when you're flirting you're not building comfort. you're building Tension--often the goal is to build sexual or emotional tension to get the girl thinking. this happens with posing questions she has to answer that might be provocative or eye opening. start small--work your way up that ladder to really escalate--but you have to gauge the girl. jokes are a good baseline to break rapport because you're getting high emotional spikes such as laughter. after she laughs--give her a slight pause in your body language, tilt your head so you seem relaxed and give a look that says you know what her secret is and she doesn't know you know it. even these small little hints break out that tension without even having to really go all flirty or caveman on her. tension with intent is powerful. look up james marshall on some specifics.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: General attraction model

    Attraction -work on your fundamental
    Solidy the attraction - get to know her
    Lead her to bed - do I need to say anything about this?
    Plan your relationship - how to plan your relationship for casual & serious relationship

    I learn this system from my buddy book - Sex Beast The Awaken.

    Many solid advice about how to go thorugh each of this phase smoothly.

    You can just google for that book if you are interested.


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