Re: General attraction model
they're all about the same in my opinion. how can they be? well thats because each girl is different meaning you have to adapt to what the girl is doing. you can't ignore her signs and body language.
as for how they really are all the same--they all some how balance between rapport and breaking rapport. too much rapport = friend zone. breaking rapport = flirt / player. this is something all in common with all models. most guys don't have a problem with building rapport--instead they often build too much of it and get stuck in LJBF land. i think the smartest thing to do is to switch back and forth when she's given you lots to go on. i also think for some girls--a nice attraction side kick is to introduce a nick name early on based on something you found out or something out of observation. reason for this is that it helps you establish some rapport where you stand out from all of her friends who just call her by her name. in some ways you're establishing a boyfriend bond already--especially if you don't call her this in front of other people. going to test it today again and see if it really comes to benefit me
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