Re: Self esteem goes up and down along with depressionlike thoughts
Dont worry about the Number Close.
If anything think about how she can fit in your life. If you think you wanted to date her--just be direct when it feels right. If shes really fun--invite her to an event youre going to. If you think shes got style tell her you need help picking out some clothes for a special occasion. Dont lie about your intentions. Be honest. Trust your gut. If and when you feel those butterflies in your stomach take it as a sign that youre interested in the girl. If you dont have them then shed probably just cool to hang around and kill some time with. Dont make thinks harder for yourself by making goals harder to achieve by only getting a
number or whatever. Treat her like a person and she'll respond back to you like a person.
Also congrats on not freaking out on her or losing your cool. Not to mention making her laugh. Think of it as making her day as well as improving yourself for the better.
Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.