Re: Self esteem goes up and down along with depressionlike thoughts
another thing too is that you can actually turn this to your benefit in making newer friends and opening new doors to meet women. usually a HB10 has other HBs around her or knows plenty of them. Befriend the guy--compliment on how good they look together. have a normal conversation about them and just have fun with it. if you can talk to them and get them to talk about how they met because you think they look good together they'll think you're not hitting on them and that you're interesting because these days --no one says that to couples. befriending people can help you boost your confidence and if you're honest in letting them know your single and you don't sound like an idiot or weirdo i'm sure they could probably hook you up with a blind date with a girl who might be in the same situation as you.
Originally Posted by Ivo
the ultimate goal here is to have social abundance rather than what most people in the PUA world describe or shoot for with the abundance of women mentality. when you have social abundance you don't care if you're hanging out with women or men--you're a socially dominant person who has no ties to anyone who does what ever he wants to make himself feel great and others around him. you can still want a girlfriend, sex or marriage but the more that people see you're having a great time and just making the group feel better about being around you the more people will want you around. because of this you'll have a better chance at people taking care of you socially and if they aren't attracted to you--they'll help you find a girl in how they think you should do it. you don't have to do it, but listen to them. thats when you take the rest of the principles of the PUA world and apply it to talking to women in bars, clubs or out on the street because you're not worried about getting them to go home with you--you have your friends you could still have fun with. she's just someone you thought was interesting enough to have like 5 minutes of conversation with. don't over analyze things--go live your life.
Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.