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    Default Re: room mate steals the girl I was trying to get

    You straight up tell him the fuck off.

    Then if he gets mouthy back you beat him to his last breath. It's that simple. Fuck what these other guys are saying about being "beta" ^

    By worrying about being beta, you're beta in itself. You're a guy, & you do whatever the hell you want to. If you want to text a girl 3-4 times in a row, do that. Who cares what she thinks.
    Stop worrying about PUA rules and live your life. In the long run, you will be much happier & attract girls that matter.

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    Default Re: room mate steals the girl I was trying to get

    Quote Originally Posted by Kyl3 View Post
    You straight up tell him the fark off.

    Then if he gets mouthy back you beat him to his last breath. It's that simple. fark what these other guys are saying about being "beta" ^
    Am surprised you of folks would come out and say that.am wondering if you are breaking the rules then why should i be on here.A man is trying to tell me to stay away from my own wife and i don't see her say nothing but i don't think fighting is best. i have blown off before it doesn't help.

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    Default Re: room mate steals the girl I was trying to get

    Theres a difference in what youre saying youre here for and what we're saying. We're saying put value into yourself--if someone is disrespecting you you don't have to take it. If it was a woman who did the betrayal you should walk away--if its a guy whom youve talked to about what you were wanted especially with a chick and he back stabs you--you have the right to be angry. Its only fair game if she made it clear they were seejng each other infront or to the room mate.

    Are you saying youre here to steal a friend / room mate's game? Its almost as low as breaking up a chicks relationship whose committed to another guy
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: room mate steals the girl I was trying to get

    Don't fight over a girl!! Guess he won this one, what can you do. No need to mess up your friendship over a girl that you really didn't like that much. Next time remember what you did wrong and not leave a girl alone with a friend who actually has game.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: room mate steals the girl I was trying to get

    No fuck that^

    Better "game"? "Game" in itself is such a generic term it's crazy. Everybody has "game" of some kind.

    He's not your friend if he's stealing a girl you like & HE KNOWS you like. I honestly didn't read the whole thread.
    It's not about the girl at that point. It's about you're "friend" not giving a fuck about you & going behind your back.


    Obviously the situation is passed. I've had bestfriends fuck my ex girlfriends right after a break up multiple times & I've never fought them and just cut them out of my life. Looking back at it, I should've beat the hell out of them just to prove a point. Whether it's right or wrong it doesn't matter.

    You're actions have consequences. So when his roommate steals his girl that he KNEW he liked, he should suffer the consequences.

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    Default Re: room mate steals the girl I was trying to get

    Friends don't Fack friends over. If he was a friend he would have made it easy for his friend to get the girl and leave. He deserves to be put in his place because this d1ck move is ultimately saying he doesn't care about his friends feelings. Think about--its the same situation if your girlfriend cheated on you with a guy and said it was just sex, a One Night Stand or worse--emotional cheating (most guys dont see this as a problem but if you were smart with your game you'd make sure she isnt goig to emotionally cheat on you because if she does shes more inclined to lying to you and leaving you--so yeah the game of attraction continues beyond just calling each other boyfriend girlfriends.)

    I think its bad for anyone to accept friends who would do something like this because it effects your inner game--you're ultimately saying "its ok to step over me anytime you want for your happiness because its more important than than what i want or my own well being.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: room mate steals the girl I was trying to get

    She showed her true colors. Be thankful that you saw that early and move on. Game her and do the spiderman all over her face. Look for a better place to live with better friends. Why fight over some chick that's willing jump all over the place like that? It's not worth even the tiniest scratch on you're hands. You are above it. Live to fight another day and fark another broad.
    “The great mistake is to anticipate the outcome of the engagement; you ought not to be thinking of whether it ends in victory or defeat. Let nature take its course, and your tools will strike at the right moment.” -Bruce Lee

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    Default Re: room mate steals the girl I was trying to get

    Smile, laugh and be friendly and keep fist bumping while you say something like this.

    "You know it's interesting how guys tend have the need to steal somebody else's girl. Does it make you feel powerful? (Smile/tease) It does doesn't it? You like that dontcha? It makes you feel alpha doesn't it?(smile) What you did could destroy an average chode's self-esteem but it's all cool. I know that's what you do. You bring people down so you can look good. Awesome (Fist bump)"

    If you want extra drama add this. And watch how he'll react hahaha
    (start crying)
    How was she? She good? Were you thinking of me while you were farking her?"

    hahaha Say that to your room mate. If you can VIDEOTAPE it. hahah

    Remember the key here is to have fun and play with his emotions and mind-fark him. This is not about you bitching. So this is all about TONALITY and HOW YOU SAY IT. Remember to keep it cool, smile and laugh to avoid sounding butthurt.

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    Default Re: room mate steals the girl I was trying to get

    Man this thread is pretty crazy. Lets look at a few things here because there's a difference between "how it should be" and "How it really is".

    I used to have very similar views to Kyle when I was younger but banging a bunch of women, and getting into situations along the way, things have changed.

    Rule #1. Your ex girlfriend will bang one of your friends after you break up. It happens nearly every single time. Why you ask? Because your girlfriend became friends with all of your friends when you dated and those are the guys she knows. She will be attracted to AT LEAST one of them and try to bang him as soon as you two break up (if not before). The only way it won't happen is if your friend is super close to you and says no. The girl will try to get with one of your friends every time. This is the way the world works. It sounds shitty but it's extremely common and you need to accept it.

    I was dating a girl (She wasn't my girlfriend) years ago and I went out of town one weekend. My buddy Dan was having a party and she went. I got back into town and Dan called me immediately. He told me he banged the girl and she didn't want him to tell me. I was pissed but happy he was honest. I called the girl up and told her off. The stupid girl chased me for two months crying and trying desperately to get me back! I'm still friends with Dan to this day and he's a great f'ing guy! It would have been a sh!tty thing for me to end the friendship because of that.

    Rule #2. If you keep bringing a girl around and you don't close the deal, one of your friends will. I know the op's situation is a little different but this rule is a big one. Don't bring a girl around your friends until you've been banging her on the regular. One of your friends will try to pick her up if she's hot!

    I don't hit on the women my friends are trying to get with at the beginning. I give them time to work their game even if I notice the chick is into me. BUT there's one thing that needs to be stated: If your bringing a chick around and your not closing the deal someone else will. I've had friends who had HUGE crushes on some chick who obviously didn't feel the same way. These guys had no chance and no matter what I told them they wouldn't believe me. There comes a time when enough is enough. If the girl is attractive and I want her I go after it, AFTER he screws his chances up. I even tell them "listen dude, I'm going to bang Beth. I haven't done anything with her yet but it's going to happen. I thought I would tell you first because I know you like her".

    Rule #3. All of your friends will let you down at some point, as you will let all your friends down at some point as well. People make bad decisions. Just because one of your good friends did something you didn't like doesn't mean you should just cut them out of your life. I banged my best friends younger sister multiple times but told him about it right after it happened. He wasn't very happy but he was happy that I was honest about it and he forgave me. My other buddy then banged his sister and was hanging out with her but he was secretive about it and pulled some shady moves. My buddy didn't forgive him because of the way he went about it.

    I banged my other best friends little sister who is seven years younger than me. Before I even made out with her I told my friend that I was going to be seeing her little sister. She was fine with it because I was honest and told her right away. If I would have went and banged her little sister a bunch behind her back it would be different.

    Rule #4. Be upfront and honest with your friends if you did something. All of these stories I've told could easily end a friendship but everyone involved was honest. This saved the friendships regardless of the actions involved. If things were deceptive and "behind peoples backs" the outcomes would have been different. If you find yourself in a situation be honest with your friend right away and they will usually forgive you.

    Remember Dan from the beginning of the post? He's happily married right now to a beautiful woman who makes 6 figures. Well he dated a mutual friend of ours for three years before he met his wife. I've been flirting with this girl recently and she's totally DTF so I told him "Hey Dan you know Beth? I've been flirting with her allot recently and she totally wants my nuts. Next time she's in town I'm banging her". Dan wasn't real happy about that but I said "Hey man, you're married to an amazing woman who's better for you than Beth. You have no right to be upset". To which he agreed. Honesty for the win! :-D

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    Default Re: room mate steals the girl I was trying to get

    I hate it when that happens. What ever happened to "bros before hos (no disrespect to the ladies, it's just for lack of a better term from a word that rhymes with "bros")", or simply not sacrificing you relationships with your male friends over the pursuit of women. You should confront him about it.
    Quote Originally Posted by artandale View Post
    Tell him he owes you one--and if he doesnt agree i do honestly believe you have the right to punch him in the face


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