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    Default room mate steals the girl I was trying to get

    Hi,

    This is just a follow up on my earlier posts. The girl I nearly kiss closed came to see me, but my snake of a room mate played game on her, and she went to his room. He knew she was my target, in fact, I had asked him for advice regarding her. He is such as a snake. Thankfully, I am not in love with her. Still I feel like he spat on my face. We live together.
    I want to confront him.
    What do I do?
    Please help. I am just a newbie and don t have superior game.

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    Default Re: room mate steals the girl I was trying to get

    Ask him what the fark and punch him in the face.

    No, but you need to say how you feel. Including that "spit in face" part. If he laughs it off, then there's several options to choose from.

    My favorite one, if he really doesn't cooperate and you feel like being an asshole, is leaving a HIV positive test result sheet somewhere the girl will see it. But prepare for a war after that
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    Oh, and getting laid is pretty farking awesome too!

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    You need to tell him in a strong tone but grounded tone how you feel. Don't get mad, don't flip out, breathe deep into your balls and stay grounded. Tell him you don't appreciate his actions, you considered him a close friend and this was a big betrayal and you no longer wish to be his friend, and give him the cold shoulder. He may laugh it off but will at least respect you more if you tell him how you feel straight to his face, looking him straight in the eye, and stay grounded in your energy and handle the situation like a professional

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    Tell him he owes you one--and if he doesnt agree i do honestly believe you have the right to punch him in the face
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: room mate steals the girl I was trying to get

    This happened to me once, but in the opposite side. This girl was a professional dancer (not a Stripper) and she was pretty cute. He told me she was his target, and after the party she stayed. We ended up jamming out and I am a better guitar player than him, she ended up in my room (even after he said he was going to bed) and she stayed until she realized I wasn't going to make a move on her. She was pretty disappointed, even when she looked at me the next day.

    If he had not closed her that night, I would have gone after he, however she went to his room and he got lucky. I did make sure to mention the next day that I didn't take her, and he thanked me, didn't even realize what was going on.

    So sorry to hear about that, but yea, I wouldn't room with him anymore, that is bullshit.
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    There is no question of my moving away because of him, I ll have a fight with him. That's what would be alpha. I am kinda looking forward to it.

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    Having a fight wouldn't be alpha, not in my opinion. Of course, don't back down if challenged, but the bottom line is just tell him that was bullshit of him, and you won't be tolerating that shit. How do you really feel towards him? Below the anger?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Blistex View Post
    Having a fight wouldn't be alpha, not in my opinion. Of course, don't back down if challenged, but the bottom line is just tell him that was bullshit of him, and you won't be tolerating that shit. How do you really feel towards him? Below the anger?
    The anger is too strong. Otherwise jealous. Not because of this, but because of everything.

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    Default Re: room mate steals the girl I was trying to get

    am in a similar not so related rough situation.talk to one of his girls and do the deed.he will understand then.been practicing i suggest you do same.

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    Default Re: room mate steals the girl I was trying to get

    Just talked to him. He said nothing happened. I did not hear any sounds of passion either. In Germany, where I am, such sleepovers are common, but he is a major cockblock. He is German, and they are usually honest. target LJBFed me again. She had been on my balcony, my arm around her, all buy signals, but now says it was just a magic moment and that she was surprised when I tried to kiss her. Wants to be friends, but I said I find her attractive, and will hit on her. Don t want to become the spare wheel. Or should I let it go? Pivot her?


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