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    Cool Picking up lifeguards at the Pool

    So this will be asking advice on what to do with 2 different girls so I'll try to keep it short. Pretty much they both work at the same pool and go to school with me and I got what appears to me to be ioi's from each. The first one it was my first time meeting her because shes a year younger and I go to a high school with 1200 enrollment so it was sort of a cold approach. I don't remember exactly how I opened her, honestly I think I asked her if my back was pealing lol and it lead to me bringing up football practice and how hot my weight room was and her bringing up that shes in cross country and tennis and us sharing which school we went to and revealed we went to the same school. At this point she asked what grade I'm in and I did hers (I'm going to be a senior and she a junior). When she told me hers I sort of was shocked because she had a 9 body and 8 face and looked like a grown woman and she saw the surprise and she inquired about it to which I responded saying she looks (paused) tall for her age because something at that moment told me not to reveal my intentions yet. Later I asked her name because I hadn't seen her before and she told me hers and then (to me her voice sounded a little nervous) she asked mine which shot to be an IOI because she was actually interested in who I was. After that we continued talking and regretted not shaking her hand in a playful nice to meet you as I normally do to get a little Kino in. Anyway she started "sleeping on the job" to talk to me for what seemed like 20 minutes, which was another IOI to me, and I ended up stopping the conversation because my back was too dry and burned.

    The second girl I had a class with and I'm mostly interested in because she is an attractive Asian (which is rare here) and I need to complete my rainbow of women I've slept with lol. In class I've had small talks and made her giggle at comments I made in class and such, but no real gaming beyond that. I saw here at the pool and acted energetic in front of her and such as I went off the slide thing she was in charge of. After I went off my friend came and told me she asked if my name was [my name] which I took as an IOI (we hadn't had a class together for like 5 months because she dropped the class we had together). When I went off another slide she was in charge of she actually initiated the conversation with me and asked about the only thing we each know we have in common which was the class we had together she dropped. I had a short conversation with her about that and went about my business. Later, when she was in charge of the diving board I tried to splash her with the water with my friend (as a way of flirting of course, I had my friend do it too so that I could keep him involved kind of as my wing). During my second try, after my friend went, she specifically said "I hate you, [my name]" instead of just you guys, so I took that as an IOI because she focused on me. Anyway I did a little more subtle flirting of the same shortly before I left.

    So I'm stuck here, I need some advice on some stronger flirting and an opening for more kino for both of them. Also, I need advice on setting up the "what are you doing when you get off" so I can get their numbers and set up possible dates. I did have a lot of social proof because I knew most of the other life guards and if they saw me talking to each of them it would build value because it makes it look like I'm valuable to other women. I probably won't game them for a few days because I'm really sun burned and I have to be outside for football still and I want minimum sun exposure until this burn turns tan. That turned out kind of long but anyway, any help here would be greatly appreciated. If I left out vital details I'll try to add more.

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    Default Re: Picking up lifeguards at the Pool

    Try NOT to let yourself have conversations about school or work... that's the stuff FRIENDS talk about. (AKA friend zone)

    When she asked your friend about your name, that was definitely an ioi... so that should be your cue to start flirting.

    Ask her stuff like "How are your CPR skills? Because, I just might 'accidentally' (use air quotes) get a cramp & need your assistance." *wink/smile

    "Hey, you probably have the inside scoop on stuff like this so I'm gonna ask: would it be out of place if I showed up in a Speedo / thong next time?" *wink/smile

    "You must be a good lifeguard seeing how you work here... but how are your socializing skills? Do you know how to drink a margarita?"

    Just have fun with the interaction.


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    Default Re: Picking up lifeguards at the Pool

    I got the flirty conversation down, but I need like a smooth way to transition into asking for her number. The way I normally get the girl I'm gaming's number is by using things we have in common like school or work. For example taking their shift or homework, but I don't know what to say for her because were not in school. Pretty much I need a way of getting it based more on the attraction and a place to go on a date. I normally start text gaming them after getting the number, but these I just want the number and to text them to meet up. I'm more of a face to face type of person.

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    Default Re: Picking up lifeguards at the Pool

    Never use school or work as a conversation topic in the beginning, OR to get the number.
    Using that for a Number Close sets you in the "friend" category. It makes it seem like that's the reason you want her number.

    You shouldn't have any trouble getting a number after flirting & building attraction. When girls are attracted to you, they'll gladly give up the digits.


    AND... there's no difficulty in trying to transition to something else. You just keep being fun & flirting with her.


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    Default Re: Picking up lifeguards at the Pool

    A smooth way to get her number is set up date with her.

    Tell her you are having fun talking to her & want to meet her again.

    Give her 2-3 times where you are available to meet and let her choose.

    Preferably set the date within three date of your first meeting with her & set the date near your place so you can easily bring her home..

    Hope this help,
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    Default Re: Picking up lifeguards at the Pool

    This might sound kind of dumb but I feel kind of awkward doing asking them out before even getting their number, honestly something I've only done once and it was a girl I lived with temporarily and it was over Skype (video chat, as we were catching up) because she didn't have a phone. I normally ask girls after I'm positive are into me what they are doing at that certain day or time and then ask them out when they say their not busy. Should I ask that way or ask if she'd like to go out some time? I really prefer the first because I feel like I'm being a pussy/less smooth when I ask the second way (and typically have gotten more negative responses).

    P.S. I haven't had a chance to game them again because I've been too busy with other things to go to the pool so I'll probably be re-gaming them. Planning on going sometime next week.


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