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  1. #1
    Noz03 Guest

    Question How can I build comfort with a virgin?

    Recently i've been dating a girl who is a bit younger than me and a lot less experienced... As in she has NO experience at all! I don't mind taking things slowly with her but no matter what I do she just keeps telling me everything makes her feel uncomfortable. So far we've been on 3 dates and I did stay at her house 1 time but she wouldn't let me do anything more than kissing and after a lot of work a little bit of titty squeezing. She also has very low self esteem despite being a very beautiful girl and is very against me seeing her naked.

    How can I get her to relax more and just go with the flow?

    Btw for the record I'm not just trying to "steal" this girls virginity, I wouldn't want her to do anything I thought she would regret, I just want her to relax and feel more comfortable.

  2. #2
    Pinai Guest

    Default Re: How can I build comfort with a virgin?

    Errr... if you guys aren't in a committed relationship yet and she has held onto her virginity for a real reason, then you may have to do a loooot of backwards step before she'd feel comfy with you. And maybe she IS relaxed and comfy when she's kissing you, only she feels you want more... something she may want as well but isn't ready for.

    If you're serious about just wanting her to relax around you, then stop being anywhere private and hang around with her in public, where you guys can't grope and such.

  3. #3
    Noz03 Guest

    Default Re: How can I build comfort with a virgin?

    Well I think she feels completely comfy when we are in public, just not in her place or letting me touch her in any sexual way.

    Anway we talked about me possibly staying a her place tomorrow night but she just mailed me and said she wants to rest as were going on a trip with a bunch of her friends the next day. But to be honest I think it's really becauseshe dosnt want to be alone in her room.
    Last edited by Noz03; 01-21-2010 at 12:54 PM.

  4. #4
    Mystery_wannabe Guest

    Default Re: How can I build comfort with a virgin?

    Quote Originally Posted by Noz03 View Post
    Well I think she feels completely comfy when we are in public, just not in her place or letting me touch her in any sexual way.

    Anway we talked about me possibly staying a her place tomorrow night but she just mailed me and said she wants to rest as were going on a trip with a bunch of her friends the next day. But to be honest I think it's really becauseshe dosnt want to be alone in her room.
    I'm guessing it's cause insufficient comfort is built. Try easing up on the speed. You're going a bit too fast.

  5. #5
    Solomon Guest

    Default Re: How can I build comfort with a virgin?

    She may not trust herself with you, but obviously, remaining a virgin (or sleeping with someone she's not in a relationship with) are big deals for her. Chances are, you've managed to make her feel like just a piece of flesh, and that her virginity is turning you on much, that she's all threatened now. But I think she does like you. She's juct conflicted because of her growing attraction and desires and value framework.

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    Default Re: How can I build comfort with a virgin?

    Sloooowly... When you've made lots of comfort even the most inexperienced girls go naughty.

  7. #7
    culturedpearls Guest

    Default Re: How can I build comfort with a virgin?

    Dude, if you're not trying to 'steal' this girl's virginity, then you shouldn't have a problem with going slowly. Some girls give men BJs left and right just so they won't have to 'lose' their virginity (which I think is bull) but there are girls who think any form of nudity or touching is as good as giving in... or at least THAT CLOSE to losing their most prized possession. So respect her feelings and withdraw... seduce her instead but let her take the initiative to kiss, to make out in her room, etc.

    And... go hang with other girls.


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